it was his decision not mine but since moving out ive only spent 3-4 nights back home, every afternoon he picks me up and we go back to his place and he drops me off at mums most mornings on his way to work. i have no problem with this as i love going to sleep and waking up next to him but im slightly confused because he said to me he wants me to stay every night and his mum still calls his room "our room" and he asked me the day before yesterday to start paying rent again. it's only $30 a week but what am i supposed to think, he even picked my pet rat Morgan up from mums after work yesterday and put him in the spare room at his house. is he just missing my company at night or does he want me living there again, i don't see much point paying rent at mums and at his house if im not living at both. Please tell me your thoughts
2006-10-16 14:45:32 · 6 answers · asked by pcdo_universe 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
im only 17
2006-10-16 16:04:58 · update #1
I think you should talk to him about this. Tell him that you will not bounce back and forth and that he needs to make some decisions about what he wants.
That is what I would do anyway.
2006-10-16 14:50:14 · answer #1 · answered by Joy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell him to make up his mind!! You can't afford to pay rent at both places. However, he wanted you out, so, I wouldn't give him rent money because you left his house. You technically aren't living there anymore. I think he just misses your company.
Tell him you are no longer living there and can't pay him rent. You are living at your mother's and paying HER rent. Don't sleep over there if he wants rent money from you. He needs to figure out what he wants. Then maybe after awhile, you two can get back together. But maybe it's good that you two are spending time apart. He sounds confused. I hope this helped. Good luck.
2006-10-16 14:52:30 · answer #2 · answered by Jenna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should get your own place and stop living with other people. Get on your own two feet, support yourself and then decide if you want to be in a relationship with someone else don't get me wrong i'm not against living with some one before marriage it just sounds like you need to get yourself together first
2006-10-16 16:01:32 · answer #3 · answered by krs10yeah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're literally not too youthful to flow out. I went by ability of something similar yet diverse. I moved out at 20 and actually, in words of my training, it replaced into the perfect element i might want to have carried out. For the sake of your grades and sanity, i might want to say flow out even if it is insufferable. yet shifting in consisting of your bf will convey this is personal issues... perhaps locate an residing house to percentage with (an)different pupil(s). i'm guessing that your cutting-edge concentration is getting your training. With that in recommendations, you ought to positioned it first and do what you want to do with the intention to be constructive. do no longer abandon your brother. shop attempting to inspire him and be conscious what occurs. If he's as solid as your moms and dads say, he might want to take suggestion from a loving sister.
2016-12-04 22:01:38 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am more concerned about Morgan!
I mean one minute he there..then back again and now? he back over there again?
And you call him a rat......
I say what about Morgans rights....has he no say, hes not a yo-yo you know...I think you should ask him....how he feels about it all....I really do....yes I do......poor Morgan.
2006-10-16 14:51:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh dear ! now up to you to seek THE longterm solution. Don't expect too much to change, mayb think of moving on
2006-10-16 14:52:37 · answer #6 · answered by PikC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋