I'm feeling so down in the dumps. I just lost my job and I don't know what to do. I'm on the verge of being really depressed. I just need someone to talk to.
2006-10-16 15:29:22 · 16 answers · asked by Tina 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
No matter how bad it gets...keep your head up. If you need somebody to talk to, you can add me on Yahoo Msgr. as sornelas26. Hope to talk to you soon.
2006-10-16 15:32:41 · answer #1 · answered by sornelas26 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's a job that you really did enjoy, then it certainly is a traumatic experience to lose it. Take some time to step back and recognize that you have a right to feel bad about it.
Then, register for unemployment and job searches on the internet or in person. Decide if you want to continue in the same line of work, or if you might like to try a different direction.
Through all of this, don't forget to take some time to have fun. It's still okay to go out to the movies, or go shopping, or do anything else that you did while you were employed. Sure, it will be important to watch the spending, but that doesn't mean that you still can't indulge a little.
Also, try to get up in the morning around the same time as when you were working. Try to keep a similar schedule.
Don't hang your head. This has happened to a lot of people. Stay positive. Things will get better.
2006-10-16 22:39:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl you have def come to the right place. Don't worry you will be fine just get up tomorrow take a nice shower put your best clothes on and go out there and find another job. It might take some time but you must know you WILL find something. Don't be down these are the times when you have to be strong and not think negative. You will be fine. Dress up your resume and email away. You will have people asking you for interviews like carzy you'll see. think of it more like a small mini very mini vacation. Good luck.
2006-10-16 22:37:34 · answer #3 · answered by prettyfalcon197 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey it could be worse, you could be terminaly ill or could be losing a leg. Losing a job sucks but its not the end of the world, I lost my job and was unemployed for about 3-4 months but eventualy I found a new one....and a better one I might add. Jobs will come and go until the day you retire, so keep looking for new ones. Im sure you will find a better one, try looking at Monster.com.
2006-10-16 22:32:48 · answer #4 · answered by Chris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tina, Ay Tina. Look up! For your help comes in the name of the Lord. Do you have a Bible? If so read, Psalm 121. Everything is going to be alright.
2006-10-16 22:41:42 · answer #5 · answered by mivelantine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True happiness and contentment will only come when you have accepted Jesus Christ into your life. A verse in the Bible says "You (Jesus) alone are the real joy giver..." When He made us, he gave us an emptiness, a longing so that we would never have a completness without Him. Once we ask Him into our lives, He fills that void with Himself! Believe me, He is the only true way! And He loves you, and longs to take you into His arms and comfort you.
2006-10-16 22:40:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch some comedy shows. Something to make you luagh your socks off. Or just write something. That's what helps me. I'm not really much of a talker when I'm depressed But I can try to cheer ppl up who are, So turn that frown upside down and SMILE :)!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!......................freaky aint it someone you don't know is acting all perky on you.lol
2006-10-16 22:33:20 · answer #7 · answered by Zorro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear that, but it will all be okay. Best thing to do is to go out and find another job, get back into it. Keep your self busy hang out with friends, but don't give up.
2006-10-16 22:32:56 · answer #8 · answered by Right Wing Extremist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi
2006-10-16 22:30:51 · answer #9 · answered by sick4eternity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first off go get another job then go to the bar and hit on all the guys if your attractive at all you might get some attention
2006-10-16 22:32:15 · answer #10 · answered by someone_you_wish_you_knew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋