2006-10-16 15:32:26 · 8 answers · asked by curious cat 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he might be bipolar. im not saying that in a bad way. if he doesn't want to check with a psychiatrist, i would suggest dumping him. it is very hard to have a good relationship with a bipolar person who wont seek treatment. there are many types of bipolar, and most people just think of the typical crazy crazy one. there is Bipolar II. You should look it up or talk to a doctor.
2006-10-16 15:36:23 · answer #1 · answered by サンダース 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could try asking him what helps him when he's moody, make sure you ask when he's in a good mood. If he denies that he gets that way just accept it and say you misunderstood or something along those lines. Or he may not know what he wants you to do so if that fails, try just listening, ask him how he feels, why he feels that way, probe so that you understand where he's at, and then show him you understand by saying back what you think he means, and he should feel a lot better just because he is understood. If that doesn't work just keep trying different methods for a while and see how it goes.
2006-10-16 22:39:55 · answer #2 · answered by kittyandcj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he's snappy, he's trying to make you feel crappy....
Let him be and if you really love him and think that he loves you... Then be patient... If you don't love him or think he doesn't love you... Dump him..
Sometimes people are snappy when they have someone else and don't want to break it off so they won't feel guilty for cheating...
2006-10-16 22:43:39 · answer #3 · answered by James B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to get the heck over himself and if he wants to be snappy to do it somewhere else. Why girls put up with this cr@p is beyond me.
2006-10-16 22:36:47 · answer #4 · answered by dragonrider707 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should give him some space. either try to talk to him with a nice, calming voice or just leave the room and let him figure it out his self. tell him, if you want to talk, i will be in the other room and then leave and wait for him to either calm down or come and talk to you. when you do get him calmed down, ask him how does that make you feel. and try to understand where he is coming at and say oh and this makes you feel......
2006-10-16 22:37:31 · answer #5 · answered by JennyJen91 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's best just to leave someone alone when they are snappy.
2006-10-16 22:33:56 · answer #6 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to take a hike!!!! You dont have to take that kind of crap!! You dont need either a mamas boy nor a guy who is so full of himself!!! Tell him to go and throw a tempertantrum somewhere else. And to GROW UP!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-16 22:41:17 · answer #7 · answered by Nile Queen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i just laugh or crack a joke but its best to leave him alone
2006-10-16 22:35:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋