is it wrong to sleep with someone out of lonliness?

Question

is it wrong to sleep with someone out of lonliness, horny-ness, and just plain need of attention?

Answer 1

if youre available,....hes available,...you wanna,.and he want's tuh,....let a rip, and do the deed,....its nobody else's business except your's.........Use a bit of health safety commonsense, and yuh should be hot to trot........

Answer 2

Well, is that the only thing to do coz your lonely? How about what is important to you like spending time with friends, going out with friends and doing a hobby or playing a sport? Yes it wrong!!! You will feel guilt afterwards cause you will only get a cheap result. Is he/she gonna refer you as someone worth persuing or an easy lay? What if that person doesnt bother with you afterwards? Who will you seek after that? Another Lay? C'mon, there is soooo much to do out there!! Joing a gym, go for a jog, join a sports club, call up some friends and hang out! go for a movie, decide to clean up your apt or car or check out the dailies for some volunteer work!! WORKS FOR ME! Well, I'm married but sometimes there is the occasional lonely times!!

Answer 3

It's not wrong if you know this person does not have strong feelings for you. It's okay to get affection from someone without being in love with them. Lonliness sucks and sex helps. Just make sure you are not hurting anyone or yourself.

Answer 4

Depends. What's your secondary motive? It's not always known, but it exists and is often the reason for a desire for that kind of attention. Go for it, and then commit yourself to him for life.
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Answer 5

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Answer 6

been there done that too many times....respect ure self...sex is over rated...if u need a man to make u feel worth something u need to stop and focus on what the problem really is....needing attention is normal but if it causes bad decitions then theres a prob....make ure self happy....then and only then will u be able to find love and recive that attention u deserve...not just a one night stand

Answer 7

It all depends on you. As for me, I need to have a very strong emotional connection to a guy before I hop into bed with them, otherwise, I get no satisfaction at all. To me, it would be meaningless and that would just make me more miserable so, no, at least for me, it is wrong to sleep with sometime for the wrong reasons.

Answer 8

So have recreational sex because you feel lonely? Horny? or need attention?

Why don't you go and find a guy without having sex? If you're horny take a cold shower... Meet some friends at a coffee shop or wherever...

Recreational sex has consequences...

Answer 9

you tell me the kind of person that sleeps with someone who just wants a one night stand. That would be someone who doesn't want any commitments and has slept with how many other people before they volunteer to share whatever they may have with you.

Answer 10

Sarah, no, not at all. I wish I was the lucky guy. Just be careful. Horniness is just human nature.

Answer 11

Most of the answers i see you have received may seem right but they are unfortunatly wrong.

Any sexual relationship formed outside of the platform of commitement and agreement (marrage) is destined to cause you more trouble than its worth. Why give away a piece of the most precious and valuable gift you have, your soul?

Truthfully, the feelings of lonlyness will actually INCREASE the more you try to express it through sexual means, and you will continually find yourself needeing to try more outgoing sexual acts to fill that void of lonlyness.

The only thing that can ever fill that emptyness in your heart is God, and trustworthy dependable friends that love and Respect you for who you are.

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