2006-10-16 15:35:42 · 15 answers · asked by Kevin L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well, you can ; but it would be a dysfunctional relationship! To me, love and trust go hand in hand !
2006-10-16 16:19:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer to this is YES!!!
Of course you can love someone without completely trusting them. I know this firsthand. I adore my husband, i love him with all my heart and soul and he is my best friend. I have a hard time trusting him, because of some issues in our past, however that doesn't change the fact the I love him. This only means that I don't trust him and me not trusting him comes from inside me also just like love does. The trust issue has no bearing on my unconditional love for him.
2006-10-16 15:59:25 · answer #2 · answered by Premo Mom 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure you can but it probably won't be a very healthy relationship.
Trust is essential to a healthy relationship along with open and honest communication.
How can you even have sex with someone you don't trust? I would be afraid of diseases.
Then what about when you have kids... if you can't trust your spouse to do right by them then how could you have kids together?
2006-10-16 15:54:09 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, people stay married to a spouse they dont trust...they can still love them and hope that they can work through problems to gain trust. Eventually, if there's no reason for not trusting when all is well...it will kill a relationship.
2006-10-16 15:51:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can love someone with out trusting. But a long term relationship is built on trust and commitment.
I love my ex wife, she brought my daughters into this world. I wish her no ill, but I don't love her as a man loves his wife. I love her because she is my daughters mother.
That kind of love is not the kind that would allow for a relationship beyond that of a friendship.
2006-10-16 15:40:35 · answer #5 · answered by OleMarbleEyes 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If this is a commited relationship you're talking about then no, because a relationship like this is built on trust and honesty and if u can't trust them for one reason or another then u shouldn't be with them.
2006-10-16 16:20:39 · answer #6 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With out trust there is no love.
2006-10-16 15:42:38 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, sort of, but its not effective...Love and marriage are mainly based on trust, and if you cannot trust the person you love, how will you expect to be able to spend your time comfortably around them?
2006-10-16 15:38:00 · answer #8 · answered by Ragriav 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im in love with a woman but i will never trust a woman again, especially with money. most women are liars, users and will say and do anything to hook a man. so to answer ur question, yes u can and u are smart not to trust a woman
2006-10-16 15:41:46 · answer #9 · answered by keithy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you can but it is not very smart. when you love someone you want to trust what he says and feels. if you can not trust this person you are setting yourself up for a world of hurt
2006-10-16 15:39:58 · answer #10 · answered by sharon r 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, not really. Althugh love for a person might eventaully push through the lust. Friendship must always come first, and it's based on trust.
2006-10-16 15:39:42 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋