she used to be perfect (still is ) but it is like i have to try really hard now to get any response from her?
2006-10-16 16:20:06 · 19 answers · asked by David McClain 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sorry Charlie, when the hormones drop so does the sex drive and also with a woman it's more than sex. It's time, quality time and it's attention and it's a man making the effort to make it special and foreplay is the biggest thing you can do for her. Just don't be a machine about it. Use very light, teasing touches with whatever part of your body you are using to stimulate her. Make it light, teasing and ask her if it feels good. Offer to do anything she wants for that night and be attentive. Respond. As a woman ages so does her skin and especially that skin. So any touching , rubbing , whatever must be done much gentler and lighter with lubricant and lots of signs that you are enjoying it. Sorry about the aging process and it's affect on us women but, we're just human like you men are. We just can't turn it on as fast and we can't get to that point that quick. So, try some of this and make it special for her, dancing with her in your bedroom is nice. When is the last time you took her out on a date? Get it? Good luck.
2006-10-16 16:34:31 · answer #1 · answered by MISS-MARY 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that after 20 years of marriage the meaning of romance changes... U taking out the garbage may turn her crank and get her cat wet!!! Does she have to nag u to do isht!! If you give her a few days problem free and then "accidently" brush up against one of her fun bags she just might return the favour!
2006-10-16 16:28:16 · answer #2 · answered by FoReal! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women receive love in the form of protection in tri-fold manner. 1st Physically, if you can't even appear as if you can physically protect her, she will loose respect for you. 2nd, emotionally, if you can't hold her and promise all things will be okay, then she will loose respect for you. 3rd, Financially. If you can't insure her future financially, she will loose respect for you.
Being 20 years into this, you can't just flex a bicep and show you can protect her...you have to prove that bicep can protect her from an assailant. You just can't make empty promises to make it all better when she cries...you actually HAVE to make it all better. and 3rely, if you're not financially where she and you wanted to be by this time, then chances are it's a root nerve in many of your current trifles.
By the way, men feel love by a woman's respect. When men aren't respected, they don't feel like they are even cared about. Funny the reciprocal nature of this.
2006-10-16 16:27:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bring home red roses and tell her you are both going away to a bed and breakfast overnight,,find the B&B on the internet .I truly believe getting her out of the house into a new romantic place will do the trick..good luck sureilll
2006-10-16 16:31:02 · answer #4 · answered by COOKIE 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
love making begins when you first wake up in the morning until you fall asleep at night arousing your partner is not just physical but also mental. try spending some time alone with her ( i know thqat can be hard to do sometimes with children around)gentle touches ,kind words terms of endearment helping around the home etc may take while for things to start working but trust me they will
2006-10-16 16:25:10 · answer #5 · answered by Spud d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's too bad. And I'm the opposite. I have the husband that's not horny and have to motivate him! Wish I knew. I dress in sexy lingerie, we go out drinking w/friends to get "in the mood", we have movies, too. Good luck.
2006-10-16 16:24:36 · answer #6 · answered by dianee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-19 09:47:46 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-26 21:18:11 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you are walking through a carpeted room with socks on, rub your feet swiftly on the carpet. Then run and kiss her on the neck, if that doesn't put sparks in your relationship, i don't know what will.
2006-10-16 17:03:43 · answer #9 · answered by good golly! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her what she likes and turns her on. Maybe she's not getting what she wants or wants to try something new.
2006-10-16 16:26:26 · answer #10 · answered by Caitlin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋