Family & Relationships - 16 October 2006

if your with someone you really like and are kind of nervous and theres an awkward silence, what are some good things to say or start talking about?

pleasee help? (:

2006-10-16 17:59:14 · 13 answers · asked by jess r 1 in Singles & Dating

So i know this girl who ive seen a party before and ive contacted her on myspace and we started to talk a little and we have the same art class..she loves creativity and so do i so i was thinking that as a 'peace offering' i would give her this nice handdrawn pencil drawing of a faucet and a water drop, reflections and all. lol..anyway it is my way of expressing things sometimes and i thought it might be a nice thing to give to her..kind of sets me apart from most guys..but i was wondering if its a creepy thing to do without much precedent.

2006-10-16 17:58:29 · 19 answers · asked by blitz_rock 1 in Singles & Dating

I posted a question regarding parenting time and got total smack from somebody (a guy, I am presuming) for not wanting to be questioned where I go and what I do when it's not my parenting time!

Now, I will give you a little background info.... I have two daughters (aged almost 9 and almost 11) of which I have received roughly $1200 for in the last 18 months.

I don't really ***** about the child support unless they need money for dance, school activities, and clothing. I am currently not employed to the status that we used to be. In other words, I am not even making half of what I used to due to a downturn in Michigan's economy... but whatever.

What I don't get, is that somebody on here, called me a "leech" when I only asked about parental time and my disgust at having to feel like I need to explain my every move... Even on the ex's parenting time!!

Do you think it's unreasonable to have to pay child support when you don't buy the kids a thing besides toothbrushes/food?

2006-10-16 17:57:15 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

carry you across the parking lot on all fours so you wouldn't get your shoes dirty? My girlfriend makes me do this every sunday after I take her shopping. Its now becoming one of our weekly rituals.

See my previous 2 questions for information on others.

2006-10-16 17:56:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-16 17:55:18 · 4 answers · asked by magenta_momma 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok so i had been hanging around with this 1 guy for awhile..did sexual stuff with him and i got realy attached and started to like him..whereas for him i guess it was jus fun as he is not the commitment type..but i really feel for him and just 2 days ago he left for new york..first of all he didnt even call to ask me to meet one last time nor did he call to say BYE! so i thot he wud at least chat with me online frm there, but he sees me online and doesnt even say hi or anything..isnt this too much!?!! I am so DEPRESSED i cant HANDLE THis i feel like im gona die..i like him soo much why the hell is he doing this and what do u guys THINK of this guy..Does he not care abt me or something...he dusnt even mesage me when he sees me online, now what shud i do..but i wana talk to him, ask him how hes doin but he wont even ask me how im doing..shud i also ignore the hell out of him and never talk again..Plz advise me and help me get over this..i feel like hurting him.What shud i do plz tell me!

2006-10-16 17:55:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

see my girlfriend and i are still in highschool in fact this is our senior year. she is getting tooo gold diggerish. she wants me to buy her a bracelet for her birthday coming up in 2 weeks and she already showed me in advance what she wanted. i saw the price and it was about $300. as soon as i saw it i told her ARE YOUR CRAZY? my mom told her it would look sooo pretty on her. i guess cause my family has money she wants me to buy her that bracelet. i DON'T want to. i think that is too much for a 17 year old girl. she said if i don't she will be angry. should i dump her on my birthday and then say HAPPY BIRTHDAY?

2006-10-16 17:54:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

email or IM 20 times a day in hopes that you will receive a message from the ex you let go years ago in hopes they will message you to work things out, and get almost heart broken every time it tells you that you have 0 messages?

2006-10-16 17:53:08 · 29 answers · asked by lifescircle 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I had heard about it. Now I experience the same. I do it with my wife. I love her a lot. Make love and satisfy her and then turn away from her and sleep. She wants me to sleep facing her at least but I unconsciously turn away and sleep. She feels bad. But is it with others too. Do men do it intentionally or carelessly? or it happens unconsciously / subconsciously? Views of men and women invited.

2006-10-16 17:53:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Was it with your partner? Hook-up? one night stand? Family dog?


I'm bored... I don't feel like doing this research paper... I'd rather sit here and listen to some Floyd. I kinda want a cigarette. I'm sexy.

2006-10-16 17:51:57 · 16 answers · asked by wash_yer_nuts 3 in Singles & Dating

please write any personal experience where an adult has criticized teens, when they forget that not every teen is the same.
personally i am annoyed with it. Yes i can accept that most teens are a certain way, but that doesnt mean all of them are that way.

2006-10-16 17:51:42 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-16 17:50:57 · 22 answers · asked by mashka 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-16 17:50:57 · 38 answers · asked by swty_gurl 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay my ex keeps asking me out but everytime i go out with him he treats me like Dirt and gives me dirty looks like im the uglyist thing he's ever seen and when he's with his friends he laugh's at me. And I ask him why he's so mean and he wont tell me he just say's it's not what u think. and plus i caught him cheating on me five times. And sometimes when he with the person he's cheting on me with he's says he really want's to be with me. So I Belive him then he starts treating me like dirt again so finally i told him off and he had tears in his eyes i felt bad but i keep treating him bad and he just keeps saying sorry. ANd He Always acts like he misses me cause he always acts nice now that i don't want him. What should i Do i feel bad 4 being mean last time i seen him i gave him a real dirty look and he just looked down like he was sad.

2006-10-16 17:50:52 · 10 answers · asked by Terry l 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it true, when they say, if you love something than let it go and if it comes back than it was yours for sure. Or is this something people want to believe in, so they can still hope??? Just curious!!!

2006-10-16 17:50:41 · 13 answers · asked by denise 2 in Singles & Dating

ok people, i need some advice. I've been with my man for a year and 1/2. i dont have any guy friends, i dont flirt with guys, i dont give my number or my email out to guys. i pretty much try to avoid any compromising situations. anyways, my bf constantly accuses me of flirting and it makes me feel guilty for no reason. i always end up saying sorry just to make him feel better but i really dont do anything wrong. i try to be reassuring to him but i guess its not enough...today i was studying for this big exam i have comming up. i was having a hard time so i decided to ask my neighbor for help cause he's really smart and good at physics. my bf got really mad...long story short, i think he is being selfish. he wants me to put what he wants first before what is good for me. i mean i was just studying with my neighbor who i grew up with by the way. he doesnt trust me and i am just about ready to give up. i'm trying to focus on my education and he is really stressing me out..

2006-10-16 17:49:50 · 10 answers · asked by girlwiththegoodies 3 in Singles & Dating

I stay at home and take care of the kids I cook everyday and clean and I love to please my man I feel at times maybe Im too nice in those aspects maybe that is why he dont want to be romantic with me or want to spend time with me I miss being surprised and romanced so what does a man really want am I too domesticated for a man in this day and age?

2006-10-16 17:48:41 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I met a girl a year ago and we went out. She broke off all communication with me and then apologized. I accepted the apology and we became friends. We wanted to date again, but she told me she liked me and was in love with a guy she met on the internet from out of state. She has never met this man!!! She told me she liked me and then she would go weeks without talking to me. Now I have a girlfriend and she is awesome. This girl I met last year talked to me last night and I told her about my girlfriend and she went off on me. Itold her I was tired of being teased. She wants me to forgive her. I am tired of her and want to forget her. What should I do.

2006-10-16 17:47:45 · 4 answers · asked by TexasCowboy 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-16 17:47:42 · 5 answers · asked by Aranel 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

He is buff, kinda short, has short black hair, and looks a little hispanic. (He doesnt want to be a zombie)

2006-10-16 17:46:03 · 8 answers · asked by playdude 1 in Singles & Dating

Why aren't men speaking out about this? Do men not want to get married anymore? Do they just plan on 'banging' as many women as they can instead of committing to one good one? Help me out here.

What do you think will be left once the nuclear family is finally destroyed? ... Just a bunch of trash shacking up ... they'll be the only ones reproducing ... cranking out their dumb, mean, trash kids. Just a bunch of bastard kids with deadbeat dads and baby mama mothers The future looks rather grim.

2006-10-16 17:45:19 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was always paranoid about his online activity but now he takes his laptop with him but he says its cause his music is on it which is true. He has admitted to having a porn addiction and now works in another city for 4 nights a week staying with his mom until his work weeks over (also true i asked his mom) But i think he is nailing his ex and using myspace to communicate with her on it

2006-10-16 17:44:16 · 20 answers · asked by myspace junkie 2 in Singles & Dating

nail polish on my girlfriends toes to dry evenly? I have tried getting down on my hands and knees and blowing gently on each of her toes but it doesn't work too well. This is a nightly ritual I must perform so I need to get it right, otherwise she makes it very painful for me later in the bedroom.

2006-10-16 17:44:07 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there when I wake up holding me or letting me hold her? Why is that so hard to find?

2006-10-16 17:42:18 · 28 answers · asked by Beano4aReason 4 in Singles & Dating

She won't talk to me right now. We had a little tiff the other night and I think she needs to cool down and I probably do, too. Funny thing is, I have her paycheck (yes we used to work together until about 2 wks ago). They gave it to me before I knew she was screening calls. Should I give it to her, mail it to her, or let her come and get it? I do want to talk to her about this mess and it seems like that would be one way of ensuring it.

She knows I have it. I texted her after a manager gave it to me but before I reaized I was being screened. And she's the one who quit, so all they'd do is mail it to her anyways. Lastly, her quitting wan't a surprise, at least not to me or her, but maybe to work.

2006-10-16 17:42:11 · 7 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

well it's really my Father-in-law who goes skeptical about the whole thing. He's a Catholic and NEEDS to start acting more like one than continues his impeding about our [me and my husband] ways of worshiping The Lord, Jesus Christ. Remember, religion will NOT save us. it's our FAITH in him. so what's the big deal? there's this whole drama going on right now because we neglected his invitation of going to church together on Sunday, instead we wanted to worship God at OUR church, which he disapproves of. What to do...? he isn't talking to us, he even got into a car accident because he was so UPSET. *sigh* =T .....

2006-10-16 17:42:06 · 10 answers · asked by Christian 1 in Family

My Girlfirends Grandmother died, and i am sending a Flower stand to the Funeral home. However I dont know what to write on the crad, what do you ussually write. any help would be GREAT

2006-10-16 17:41:46 · 9 answers · asked by HookemHorns21 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-16 17:40:26 · 19 answers · asked by mashka 1 in Singles & Dating

Especially if they forget about you and stuff. I figure the only good friend is someone who helps you be more like yourself. Even if they went in and out of your life, you still have a better perspective of who you are.

2006-10-16 17:39:45 · 9 answers · asked by Shal 1 in Friends

i'm from italy and i love nort american looks weare i can find a goud place for meet nord american on the net ( i'm a man )

2006-10-16 17:38:55 · 17 answers · asked by cicho658 2 in Singles & Dating