Yeah, why not.
Whether it is legal or not is another matter. Depending on where you are he could go to jail for it.
2006-10-16 17:52:46
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answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6
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While every situation is diffierent, I'd ask myself why isn't this man interested in a woman closer to his own age? Really look at it objectively because its very unusual, and in some places illegal, for a 42 year old to look at a 17 year old as a significant other. Also, at 17 your life is just beginning. You probably want to date around for at least 3-8 years before settling down and a emotionally healthy 42 year old is likely looking for a life long relationship. When I was 17 all I wished for was a boyfriend, someone who loved and adored me. I met my husband when I was 22 and while I'm madly in love with my husband, I still wish I could have had more time being single. Enjoy where you are in life. Don't rush life because where you are will pass by way to fast.
2006-10-16 18:06:38
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answered by NanD 2
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The words "pedophile" and "illegal" come to mind. A 42 year old man has no business with a 17 year old girl. My daughter is 19, she started dating a 30 year old man--he left her after 4 months. She attempted suicide. Leave it alone and get your education and set career goals for yourself. True romance will come your way in time. He's a criminal and he's dangerous.
2006-10-16 18:02:40
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answered by Anonymous
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Yikes. What's a 42 year old doing with a 17 year old. Kinda disgusting.
2006-10-16 17:52:45
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answered by Anonymous
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Have sex is one thing,and have a serious relationship is other different thing.In this case never will be okay for you.For him yes,because you are younger.For you it is not okay,why? you are so young for any serious relationship.In this case,you will wake up one day(if you cross the line with him),and you will regret to have relationships with him.Find a better man for you,do not waste your time.Do not do something you will regret after.Stop,do not even think about this relationship.I know many friends (women) who did that relationship (with old men), and now they are paying the consequences.Think good,open your eyes and mind,wake up.This is a good advice from the bottom of the heart, of a yahoo's friend.Good luck.God bless you and protect you from this man.God already have a good man for you in your coming future.(not too old of course).
2006-10-16 18:05:31
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answered by cobrasnake 6
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Hey relax and think again. I say there is no age for love, but in order for you to be save and get out of trouble, you should wait till you are 18 years. I don't agree on the way people say you are crazy or have brain problems because it's not you. It's your heart. I know this before and it happens. Girls fell in love with older men because they feel safe, confortable, and likes to be with a man who is going to listen to them.
But I hope everything goes fine too, so be aware of what this guy really wants. I don't want to break your heart but what if he is using you or only wants sex?
Believe me, if he really respects you and loves you he is going to wait for you to be an adult and he should not ask you or begg you to do something you don't want. So Take care, I wish the best for you!
2006-10-18 19:26:06
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answered by Myself 3
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No it is very creepy, would you let your 17 year old daughter date a 42 year old man?
2006-10-16 17:53:15
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answered by twysty 5
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C'mon, girl!! THAT'S TOOOO OLDD 4 YOU!! No, I'm sorry, 30 would be okay, kinda pushing it..but 42??!! He's too old for you, and it's just not right for a young girl going out with an old man like that UNLESS he's hott in his way and making mega $$
2006-10-16 17:53:31
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answered by Anonymous
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HELL NO!!! He needs to go to jail and you need to stay away from him!!!!
He has a screw loose! And you are WAY to young for him. He has no business being with a 17 year old. Not only is it illegal, it's immoral, wrong, unethical and out of the question!!!!!!!
2006-10-16 17:55:48
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answered by Jenna 4
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No, he just probaly want to control you. What could he do with a 17 year old.
2006-10-16 17:54:23
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answered by Heaven 2005 2
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Wait a year, then it will be legal. Otherwise, it's not and it will creep out some people. Even when it's legal, it will offend some people. That is one huge age difference.
2006-10-16 17:54:00
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answered by Red1 3
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