is giving a nice drawing to a girl creepy when you barely know her?

Question

So i know this girl who ive seen a party before and ive contacted her on myspace and we started to talk a little and we have the same art class..she loves creativity and so do i so i was thinking that as a 'peace offering' i would give her this nice handdrawn pencil drawing of a faucet and a water drop, reflections and all. lol..anyway it is my way of expressing things sometimes and i thought it might be a nice thing to give to her..kind of sets me apart from most guys..but i was wondering if its a creepy thing to do without much precedent.

Answer 1

alright here we go. FIRST, look at yourself and make sure you dont creep her out in general. ask yourself, "is she cool with me?" "does she ignore me?"

if you think she doesnt mind you, then its okay to give her a drawing, but dont do that all creepy. when you do it say, "Hey i thought you might like this."

Watch her reaction! If she looks comfortable, then you can say, "I know its not that good (even if it is) but I wanted you to have it."

Then see what happens. Pay close attention to her reaction. Dont make her uncomfortable. Also, dont push it. Just end it by saying, "cool, well see you later in class."

play it cool

Answer 2

I think it's only creepy if the drawing is of her.... demonstrates stalker intentions. If you want to start a relationship, maybe slip her your phone number with a drawing (nothing fancy, a whimsical doodle, maybe?) on it. I'd be impressed if a guy demonstrated artistic ability like that. But if someone just handed me a drawing out of the blue, with no real reason, I wouldn't quite know what to do.

Answer 3

I don't think it's creepy. Guys have given me drawings before and I was flattered every time. Whether I liked the guy or not, I always appreciated the gesture and I still have the drawings over ten years later!

Answer 4

I would have thought it was cool for a guy to give me something like that - escpecially with no precedent... it is something different and with meaning and if she truly is also a creative spirit, she will be into it.. guys that did things like that for me in my past - I was into them... they were special.. I never knew what to expect and I liked that about them.

If she does not like it or seems creeped out that you gave it to her for no real reason other than you wanting to cause you think it means something - then she really is not who she represents being.. cause someone who was would be into it - so at least you will find that out.. I would say do it - why not?

Answer 5

Icky. Sounds manipulative because then she's forced to respond and has accepted a "gift" from you, which places a weird sense of obligation on her. Nope, don't do it. SHOW her maybe, but don't give.

Answer 6

doing art and stuff and being creative doesnt seperate you from other guys.the other guys are separated from you probably over 80% of the world are people like you.2pac eminem and other artists are artists and creative.And if you lyk that girl more than a friend then draw something romantic but not to romantic something cute!girls love that and dont expected them to return something.If you like her tell her by your drawings but if its just a friendly thing draw something funny but sensible!THE OTHER GUYS ARE SEPARATED FROM YOU YOUR NOT SEPARATED FROM THEM.The other guys that are separated from you are like drunkies n stuff!.

Answer 7

YEP BECAUSE YOU DONT EVEN KNOW DA TRICK DA MUCH BUT THAN AGIAN THAT MAY BE PRETTY NICE TO HER IF YALL TALKIED JUST A LITTLE AND YOU FOUND OUT WHAT SHE LIKED ABOUT DRAWING AND STUFF.

Answer 8

No but don't just give it to her and walk away.Give it to her and talk to her about it and other things.

Answer 9

it would be better if you gave her a drawing with her face on it

Answer 10

no not creepy at all...very sweet actually i say go for it