I was always paranoid about his online activity but now he takes his laptop with him but he says its cause his music is on it which is true. He has admitted to having a porn addiction and now works in another city for 4 nights a week staying with his mom until his work weeks over (also true i asked his mom) But i think he is nailing his ex and using myspace to communicate with her on it
2006-10-16 17:44:16 · 20 answers · asked by myspace junkie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I cant open another myspace were on the same ip and he knows his computers... He would catch that and he gets mad if he thinks im spying on him. His mother wouldn't lie for him trust me she enlightened me about other things and he confessed but I have given many oppurtunities to tell me if he has cheated and he denys it... He says everyone thinks about it but he would never do such a thing!
2006-10-16 17:54:55 · update #1
Sounds like a tough situation...
I understand that you see the opportunity for him to be unfaithful. But if he does not have a track record of cheating and just because he is out of your site quite often can't really give you the ammunition of accusing him of cheating.
If you suspect he is cheating using myspace (idiot move if he is) you can always monitor his page and see what he is doing.
Until you have reason to believe it you cant accuse him of it. But if you are doubting him, then you might have to keep an eye on it but dont turn into a private detective because no guy (especially one that isnt doing anything wrong) will put up for it for long.
2006-10-16 17:50:09 · answer #1 · answered by Hank123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds suspicious to me. I don't know what your finances are like, but it would help to hire a PI. If you can access his computer, check his history, his email and all the folders in it, and his calendar, address book, pockets, trash, luggage...everything! Look for anything that doesn't seem right. Smell everything. Collect all your evidence. If you can't find any, it's probably clear. If you do, you'll have something to confront him with. Don't confront him alone. Have a friend or relative with you. But only if he's not a violent guy. If he is violent, get out now, whether he's cheating or not.
2006-10-17 00:50:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hire a PI in the city that he's working in. It shouldn't take more than a couple of days to confirm, or deny your suspicions.
I am sorry you find it so hard to trust someone you love. Maybe if it turns out he's telling the truth, you can learn to deal with your trust issues in a more healthy way.
2006-10-17 00:50:42 · answer #3 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get him an ipod then he cant use music as an excuse to take his laptop. ask him if he's cheating or secretly spy on him by checking his emails, reading his myspace comments, etc. or if u trust him then u shouldnt be worried about this situation and if ur doing ur part then he wouldnt even have 2 cheat.
2006-10-17 00:50:56 · answer #4 · answered by Keeta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want to know if he would cheat on you. Get a new account on myspace with a fake name and fake picture. Start talking to him. I think you can figure out the rest.
2006-10-17 00:51:06 · answer #5 · answered by Marla C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...first off, I would stop having sex with him untill you find out for sure what the heck is going on. I would suggest a job change for him to remove the temptation of nailing his ex and seek counciling. If you have suspicion, trust your instincts.
2006-10-17 00:47:38 · answer #6 · answered by The Nag 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't trust him; or you think he's cheating...
Well he probably is; I'm sorry to say this but--- Women have instincts;
and the red flags are going up!
Drop him like a hot biscuit; find someone better; and that they will be faithful to you.
Use your intuition!!!
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Best wishes!!!!!!
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2006-10-17 00:47:26 · answer #7 · answered by Stacy M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make an unplanned visit to is ex and see what he says when he gets back. You can just say that you were visiting some people at the time and thought that you would drop her a visit. That would freak her out.
2006-10-17 00:47:51 · answer #8 · answered by LVieau 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
His mother might lie for him, if your intuition is seriously niggling you then its probably right. Keep a close eye on him, if he is cheating he will slip up, you've just got to be there to see it.
Trust your woman's intuition, get rid of him.
2006-10-17 00:51:42 · answer #9 · answered by *Care Bear* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi my_space_junkie...Girl-friend, you've answered your own question! IMO, if you go with your "sixth-sense", "gut-feeling" or "intuition"...then trust that. God gave us that "radar" for a reason! Or you can hire/go on that show called, "Cheaters"! Good Luck...but remember... "Life's to short, to be short-cheated"! XOXO Moonpie
2006-10-17 00:51:06 · answer #10 · answered by Metallicamoon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋