ok so i had been hanging around with this 1 guy for awhile..did sexual stuff with him and i got realy attached and started to like him..whereas for him i guess it was jus fun as he is not the commitment type..but i really feel for him and just 2 days ago he left for new york..first of all he didnt even call to ask me to meet one last time nor did he call to say BYE! so i thot he wud at least chat with me online frm there, but he sees me online and doesnt even say hi or anything..isnt this too much!?!! I am so DEPRESSED i cant HANDLE THis i feel like im gona die..i like him soo much why the hell is he doing this and what do u guys THINK of this guy..Does he not care abt me or something...he dusnt even mesage me when he sees me online, now what shud i do..but i wana talk to him, ask him how hes doin but he wont even ask me how im doing..shud i also ignore the hell out of him and never talk again..Plz advise me and help me get over this..i feel like hurting him.What shud i do plz tell me!
2006-10-16 17:55:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is not the kind of guy you want. Go out and have fun with a variety of guys. It's more fun and you can't get hurt as easily. Just make sure you're honest with them. Don't make a guy think he's your boyfriend if you're seeing other guys. It's also more appealing to other guys when you are available, but not desperate. Forget this guy. He sounds like a jerk and there are plenty of nice guys for the getting.
2006-10-16 18:00:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I so hate to say this but yes, he used you and you are left to deal with it. I know what you're feeling, I've been there and it's horrible. The only suggestion I can make is to try to occupy your time. Even if it's minute by minute, each day you will see it hurts a little less. Good luck and chin up.
2006-10-17 01:06:25 · answer #2 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take him off your buddy list and clear your thoughts of him, this situation is not worth your upset. You are not on his mind anymore and he shouldn't be on yours. This will be really painful for awhile, but find other things to occupy yourself with. Books, music, cooking, gardening, something else to invest yourself in and to take up your thoughts. Someone better will come along and you'll still be worried about what a thoughtless player thinks of you, it's time to move along difficult as that may be. You're in my prayers.
2006-10-17 01:07:29 · answer #3 · answered by Lyf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sorry but it sound like he got you by the heart but you said he wasnt a commitment type and he doesnt wanted to hurt you by talking to you.
I mean if he tell you that you should move on, you'll probably conform him about what he did and he would feel bad that you got attached to him.But if he tell you he like you, then he really doesnt deserved you for he cant settled down. It is best that he doesnt say anything... For he'll always remember what you mean to him.
Try and move on... For he doesnt deserved you and he knows it.
2006-10-17 01:06:22 · answer #4 · answered by Just Loving It. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time, remember that if you act like one, you'll get treated like one. He doesn't care about you because based on your behavior, you don't care too much about you (which is why you were doing guys who you'd just been hanging around, rather than in a relatosionship with.)
Move on. You'll survive.
And remove his IM account for yours.
2006-10-17 01:00:19 · answer #5 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my opinion that guy just wanted 2 play wuth u, srry for that, but you should dump him, that guys an asshole for doing that, the best you can do is be strong and move along, forget that jerk, i hope this doesnt happnes to u again, srry
2006-10-17 01:00:14 · answer #6 · answered by i_r_macintosh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ever get depressed over boys... they're not worth it!
As far as this situation, I think it's time to move on. He obviously has.
2006-10-17 00:58:15 · answer #7 · answered by bunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
O you fell for it good. He doesn't care about you in the slightest, he just wanted in your pants. Take it from me, I used to be an excellent player.
Pray to God, only he can confort you. I am truly sorry.
2006-10-17 00:59:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT LIKE THAT WHEN YOU FALL HARD FOR SOMEONE THAT
MAY NOT FEEL AS YOU DID. BUT ALL YOU CAN DO IS
GET ON WITH YOUR LIFE. IT MAY BE HARD AT FIRST
BUT YOU CAN DO IT. THERE IS SOMEONE OUT THERE
THAT WILL APPRECIATE AND LOVE YOU THE WAY YOU
NEED TO BE LOVE. SO DONT LET THIS GUY OR ANY
OTHER GUY MAKE YOU FEEL LIKE THIS. IT REALLY
IS HIS LOSS NOT YOUR. HANG IN THERE. IT WILL
GET BETTER TRUST ME.
2006-10-17 01:03:11 · answer #9 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
y should u b depressed at all!!
it was gud while it lasted.. right!
forget him ... do not forgive him (at least not right now)..
go out have some fun..
if he ever tries to chat u up get even...
2006-10-17 01:00:52 · answer #10 · answered by silverfox 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋