I stay at home and take care of the kids I cook everyday and clean and I love to please my man I feel at times maybe Im too nice in those aspects maybe that is why he dont want to be romantic with me or want to spend time with me I miss being surprised and romanced so what does a man really want am I too domesticated for a man in this day and age?
2006-10-16 17:48:41 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
and yes my personality is out going and I like to laugh and I still get dressed and look cute for him too
2006-10-16 17:58:45 · update #1
The funny thing is I still have a high sex drive so explain that
2006-10-16 18:01:19 · update #2
Typical day when he comes home from work his job is not strenious but he watches T V and eats dinner and that is pretty much it I take care of the baby clean cook and look as sexy as I can I dont like to look a hot mess and I always smell good
2006-10-16 18:04:25 · update #3
My wife takes great care of me also. It gets easy to take it for granted, I kn ow I should help her around the house more, but I'll be the first to admit I'm lazy and I hate housework. She cant cook but I dont mind, I do most of that.
Sex is great, no issues there, but I should probably make it special more often. Flowers, candles- girl stuff. I tend to forget that she has different wants than I do and different prioroties as far as what makes her happy.
Your man probably doesnt mean to be a complacent husband, but it happens.
And no, men do not want to be married to the bartramp type. They have a very limited shelf life-not marriage material. Men dont like romance, we arent built that way, so dont be upset that we completely dismiss the notion. We need to be reminded that you girls are into it.
Good luck, dont give up.
2006-10-16 18:34:08 · answer #1 · answered by n2bateyou2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For a man to answer this question is very difficult as so many men want different things. I know that with children many times it is the kids that come first and you have no choice. For a man that doesn't participate in helping with the kids it is hard for him to understand if you are tired or after a rough day of housework and children you don't look your sexiest. Talk to him and find out what he was looking at when he married you and what has changed. Communicate and maybe your answers will come from there. Men can be shallow and that seems to cloud their judgement, they forget that the best that they will ever find is at home. Keep yourself physically fit and find that happy medium that makes you like what is in the mirror. When you are happy it is hard for a man not to follow.
2006-10-16 18:04:42 · answer #2 · answered by John O 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I have been married for over two years to a woman that is career oriented. But not every man can handle a woman going after her dreams. Some like their women to keep up the house and they bring home the bacon.
I am not sure that would cause your relationship from losing its spark from what it sounds like, I think both of you just need to reconnect on a level where you were when you first met. More then likely you are at a position where you have been together for a while. Its hard keeping the passion, its something both of you have to work on. Talk to him about it and see what he would like and talk to him what you think is missing.. Maybe you can reach a common ground
2006-10-16 17:53:44 · answer #3 · answered by Hank123 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not you dear, you sound great. It's your guy. For whatever reason he's taking you for granted right now. He may not even realize he's doing it, sometimes people just get stuck in a rut.
Sit down and talk to him; if you do it in a way that keeps it on you (your feelings, what you long for from him, how it makes you feel when he
If it falls on deaf ears, he's compensating somewhere else (not necessarily cheating), and you 2 may want to consider professional help.
2006-10-16 17:53:22 · answer #4 · answered by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres nothing called too domesticated. But yeah some men want an outgoing kind of woman, especially if they have a housewife. Grass is greener on the otherside.
2006-10-16 17:52:54 · answer #5 · answered by George 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you deliverate a little when you say "He doesn't want to romance or spend time with you" Do you have kids and does he spend time with them if you do?
Try communication, maybe its time to listen to what he has to say instead of always trying to please him.
A lot of the time money is an issue? Can you discribe a typical day when he comes home from work?
2006-10-16 18:00:55 · answer #6 · answered by Chad 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being a stay at home wife is not something that many marriages can afford to do, so be happy, and of course he might be too tired or I don't know his particular tastes in women, but I think it takes a real woman to do all that work and still have time to spend with his husband.
2006-10-16 17:51:44 · answer #7 · answered by pay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do , but I also like a girl that can check the air in her tires and change a flat or the oil on car, but if you do all you say you can do I would cherish you and be running home to sex you up
2006-10-16 17:55:37 · answer #8 · answered by kalela L 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Different men like different things but for me personally there is nothing sexier than a housewife. Your man might just not realise that he is actually taking you for granted, (which has caused me a couple of relationships), all he needs is a little reminding of how sexy that actually is. Just SURPRISE him from time to time!
2006-10-16 18:03:27 · answer #9 · answered by DreE 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes you are. Stop being like a mom, maid and be like his wife. Have him help you out, be palyful while you do chores together. Tease and flirt with him. Have fun and let your hair down. Be a sensual lady.
2006-10-16 17:54:25 · answer #10 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋