A guy says luv ya' every time I have to leave yahoo messanger. I am starting to wander what this means. I am not going out with him technicly but he still says it.
2006-10-16 18:09:20 · 35 answers · asked by softball blonde 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
seems like hes using it informally
2006-10-16 18:10:55 · answer #1 · answered by Circlometry?? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who knows why guy's say or do the things they do. Could mean nothing or could mean it's his way of trying to tell you he LOVES YOU without having to come right out and say because he is afraid of rejection or out of fear. Don't spend to much time wondering about it or trying to figure men out because that would take a lifetime. I would casually say at some point ... You know I just realized something that I didin't before. You always end with luv ya' (maybe add a giggle) and was wondering if you just say that to all the girls or just the most important ones in your life? After that he may just tell the truth. However, don't ask if you don't feel the same way about him. The other option would be to start ending your e-mail the same way and see if he says anything about it.
2006-10-16 18:25:40 · answer #2 · answered by kimmie42 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could merely be a closing for him, on big deal. Like a good bye. . .nothing serious. I wouldn't take it that way, but this is only my advice. If it is really a mystery to you, the only way you will find out is if you ask him directly. No one else will know what he means by "luv ya" but him since he is the one saying it. . . but be careful he might think you are a stalker chic and taking things too seriously if you read too much into it and question him. . .
2006-10-16 18:13:23 · answer #3 · answered by In God's Image 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the guy, what he wants, how he feels about you, and how well he understands love.
It could just be his way of being friendly. He could have feelings for you. He may be telling you what he thinks you want to hear in order to get something (or you). He could be a Christian, and mean it in a Christian love sort of way. Or he could just be silly. There are many possibilities.
The best suggestion I can give you: ask him! Ask him why he says it, and be nice about it, tell him you have been curious what he means. Let him talk, and if he seems shy about it, encourage him to open up. Be patient and listen, and whatever he says, don't get mad at him for his response, but do be honest about how you feel.
2006-10-16 18:21:13 · answer #4 · answered by The Link 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't read too much into it. Love can mean alot of different things. But apparently you have touched him in a positive way. There may be something there to build on if you are interested in some kind of relationship, or it could also just be a friends thing.
Luv ya. =op
2006-10-16 18:14:28 · answer #5 · answered by Justin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing actually.. you can also write the same, if he ask why u can say" u like the style so u r gonna write that to everyone from now on '' he'll freak if he meant something special by that and u will know ......
But most of the time these are kinda like bye ... tk cr types.. donot try to read between lines.. if he wants to tell you he will tell you directly...
2006-10-16 18:24:20 · answer #6 · answered by hi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SOUNDS LIKE TA ME HES JUST SAYING LUV YA does not meen nothing friends tell friends that all the time
2006-10-16 18:15:59 · answer #7 · answered by Jeannie T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to take a look at what you two are typing on the net and well saying luv ya is pretty big to say even though its not love you its close to it.
2006-10-16 18:24:53 · answer #8 · answered by jam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirting, just being nice.
Luv ya!
2006-10-16 18:11:08 · answer #9 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be his way of closing out the convo between you two. He may not be expressing his heartfelt love for you. Similar to when two strangers pass each other and one says, "hey...how you doin'?" They don't really care but the words are still said...u follow?
2006-10-16 18:13:00 · answer #10 · answered by tjb2676 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes probably saying that like how you would call a guy honey or somthing, or maybe hes trying to hint somthing. If you really want to find out why not just ask him.
2006-10-16 18:20:43 · answer #11 · answered by Adrian N. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋