We have spent countless hours on the phone each and every night. I know how she looks and she knows how I look. It just feels that everything's clicking when I talk to her just as if I have found the right one. I know I miss her and think about her every day. And she feels the same towards me. So what's going on here?
2006-10-16 18:06:13 · 18 answers · asked by ckthepilot 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and we live almost 2000 miles away from eachother... I in FL and she in MN.
2006-10-16 18:30:31 · update #1
Blah. It's infatuation. You don't love her. If you like her enough to talk endless freaking hours, go see her for C-sake. See where it goes from there. But if you look at the statistics, the odds that you two will make it are very low. Better luck next time.
2006-10-16 18:10:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can love anyone or the image of anyone, but to fall in love with someone is not possible in my opinion until you actually spend time with them in person. Lets suppose that you or she smells bad to the other or has a habit that you feel is not what you want out of life. I dated a woman once who I liked quite a lot but her body smelled funny and I couldnt get over it. It wasnt a bathing thing just the way she was. Oh well, not to dwell on that but I think you know what I mean. I would say go for it and meet her, then I hope you fall in love right away.
2006-10-16 18:11:55 · answer #2 · answered by Bill B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Online chemistry is very different to real life chemistry. Just because she sends nice photos and emails doesn't mean you know who she is. You can have feelings for a person and feel affection towards someone based on your phone conversations and your emails, but love is a pure emotion that you can only feel when being in the same room with someone, as love is a chemistry between two human beings - not between a telephone wire or a computer.
2006-10-17 01:21:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am assuming you guys met on the internet. It's very possible that you don't really know what she looks like, but I can tell you that you can love someone based on their personality alone. I do know some people who have not met in person who lie and send fake photos, and if that's the case in your situation then that is wrong. But it is possible that you do have true feelings for whoever it is that you are talking to, if that's who they really are.
2006-10-16 18:09:14 · answer #4 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ABSOLUTELY! my brother in law worked w/ a guy and showed him my picture and gave him my number. we spoke every day for a month. i completely fell in love with him without even knowing what he looked like. it was better that way because i got to know what he was truly about without being blindsided by the physical aspect. and here we are 14 years later, happier than ever.
2006-10-16 18:36:24 · answer #5 · answered by mizzle 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You love the way ya'll make each other feel but I doubt if ya'll really and truthfully love each other, but then again I find it easier to see somebody cause they just might be ugly in person with a wonderful personality.
2006-10-16 18:09:33 · answer #6 · answered by BabyGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's easy to love anyone out there. Don't fall for it. You must be very lonely and you don't have anyone else to share your love with. If you feel that tehre is a connection try to set up a date and meet this person so you'll know for sure that your'e feelings are correct. and good luck.
2006-10-16 18:11:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nothing will go on anywhere unless your meet her face to face.Plan a meeting for better understanding.
2006-10-16 18:35:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man you're in Love how nice!!!! go for it and now that you've talked this long, why not make a Date with her.
2006-10-16 18:20:17 · answer #9 · answered by Kas-O 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Infatuation, But not necessarily love
2006-10-16 18:12:39 · answer #10 · answered by jaded2809 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋