Help me my sister keeps on stealing and using all my stuff. What can i do to stop her?????
2006-10-16 02:47:04 · 26 answers · asked by cezza 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Bear trap.
Is she known to gnaw on her foot to escape traps like these?
2006-10-16 02:48:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi i would just learn to share, that is like both of you. I wouldnt call it stealing and i would tell her she can use it if she brings it back and if she uses something then she must go and buy it for you. Tell you a good thing to do is to just to go halfs on everything then you wont mind if she uses it or not and it will save you both money. But if you cant seriously share with each other get a box with a lock on it and keep it locked.
2006-10-16 13:04:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello Its sad that you feel like you have no security in your own home, I would say ask your mum dad or whoever you live with to put a lock on your door. I know its a bit far fetched but so what you need to have your own security and stuff in a safe place. I hope you get it sorted because I think this could really get bad worse than it is now, if your not allowed to lock your room, start taking all the items she loves (keep them safe-dont throw them away) until she understands how you feel, that should work. Good luck :-) Hayley-May
2006-10-16 12:21:44 · answer #3 · answered by Hayley-May 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah this is a very common thing among sisters, tell her she can "borrow " if she asks but what i used to do was mark all my things, i bought a permanent black marker and put a dot or something on the tags of my clothes and on make up etc i would right my name on the underneath. though she is your sister after all so try not be too harsh sharing is caring as they say.
2006-10-16 11:07:07 · answer #4 · answered by dubgirl26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lock your stuff away - or just lock your bedroom door
Tell your parents
Steal some of her stuff
Tell her to grow up
2006-10-16 10:21:35 · answer #5 · answered by Marinersfan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh dear !
She has shared your mothers blood, same as you,
Its not stealing Really,
Try to teach her the difference between ARTICLES & VALUES
before she feels everything is shared
Your 'sis' is too possesive over ur articles, show her the habits of using things with permission,
"If I am right first STOP this feeling that You have more & she has less OR somewhere somewhat she has more You have less" ?
Unlike You or Me
Few are lucky enough to posses the NOBLE HABIT of
of "SHARING" things
I too have learnt this lesson from kids from this website who share everything a mix of RICH & POOR class families,
MY LESSON from
http://www.goonj.info/schooltoschool.php
If Kids can, Why can't we ?
2006-10-16 10:01:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hide it where she cant find it my sister used to be the same or buy a lock for your door but if your sharing bedroom then i would buy a little safe and keep all your stuff in that
2006-10-16 09:51:10 · answer #7 · answered by pinkdragon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may have a problem. can you keep a lock on your door or get a lock box to put important stuff and jewlery in? talk to your parents about getting her help
2006-10-16 09:49:25 · answer #8 · answered by meech1178 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to reason calmly with her, so she understands that you don't like her borrowing your stuff without asking.
If this doesn't work, warn her first, then for each thing she takes from you, take something from her, to help her understand how it feels.
If this doesn't work, you will have to get locks and use them to ensure she no longer takes your stuff.
2006-10-16 09:50:56 · answer #9 · answered by mad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put a lock on your door and if all else fails Punch her!!!! Or you could start using all her things and give her a taste of her own medicine.
2006-10-16 10:03:23 · answer #10 · answered by crazychicklisieloo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a lock on your door, or put your make up etc into a box with a key to stop her using them.
2006-10-16 09:50:16 · answer #11 · answered by nicky.x 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋