but i noticed that he keeps secrets frm me,,, and he is very shy to say,,, but for me hes is only my bestfriend i dont want him to be my bf just friends but what if he really likes me what should i do???
2006-10-16 02:43:52 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
marry him
2006-10-16 02:49:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If He Really Likes You That Way, Be Honest And Up front With Him. Friend Is All You Can Offer Him Right Now. Let Him Know That You Don't Want To Lose Him As A Best Friend
2006-10-16 02:48:51 · answer #2 · answered by Cas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What sort of secrets does he keep from you? Does keeping secrets from you mean he is interested? What if he is then? Anyway, he hasn't said or done anything strange, so you guys are friends. If he says something, it will just depend on whether you are interested or not. Sometimes friendship can be a way of getting closer you know.
2006-10-16 03:09:05 · answer #3 · answered by Sofia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys are not just friends with women because they want to be friends. That doesn't mean he is interested in more of course but generally speaking we men are trying to get close to you. Personally I would tell him right up front that there is no chance of something happening between you (if that's how you feel) so that he is not waiting for it to happen. If he stays then you know he is ok with that and if he goes then you know it was about being your BF.
2006-10-16 02:48:00 · answer #4 · answered by kyrie_eleison_gr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep him as a friend,give it a year to see what develops.If it works out to be bf-gf then that is fine--but you will never go back to just friends.
Keep it sex free or you will lose out on all of it.
If and when you go your seperate ways at least you will still be a virgin.
Going from pillar to post in relationships is destructive,so be alert.
2006-10-16 02:50:10 · answer #5 · answered by Den 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is your friend of all it is a given that he likes you...as a friend. The only way you will find out if he is interested in more than just friendship with you is to ask him. What your friends say doesn't really matter.
2006-10-16 02:46:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u know what is starting and end of love ,that is friendhip, for a good lover or life patner the most importent thing is to become friend first cuz if they become friend than will understand them easily,so i think u should take him as a boyfriend cuz i think he know what u like , what u dont,h u want any think ,when u say any think what that mean so for ferture happy life make him boyfriend,goodluck
2006-10-16 02:50:39 · answer #7 · answered by Ahsan T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that is so cute because my friend kelly had the same problem growing up a little boy that wanted to be her best friend but wanted to be her boyfriend and they were friends for years untill they grew up and now they are married!
hahaha ithought it was so funny because she like hated him but when he grew up he got handsome.:) dont worry about it just dont lead him on and be his friend because its hard too find real ones
2006-10-16 02:49:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he does like u n i think u should keep him as ur bf once i had a geek gf all the people teased me i busted thier heads
2006-10-16 02:47:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friends to get off your back. And if this guy, for some reason, asks you out, politely turn him down.
2006-10-16 02:46:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you dont want him to b ur boyfriend just tell him that u only like him as a friend ...
2006-10-17 19:22:58 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋