I have a problem, I have dated these guy for one year, I am a guy but I being gone for a long time, we broke up once and got toghere again. but now I am gone again for six months, he tellms that his tire of bieng alone and now he is now dating a girl, he says i am the best thing ever happend to him and that he misses me alot and wish that i was home to forget all his probles, but it's always hard to be together. I am tired and want to let go but I can't cuzI lov e him Can he behappy being with a woman or he is actullly gay and is donign the dating thing with a woman just to not be alone. Anything will help.
2006-10-16 03:17:40 · 7 answers · asked by joe l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He is so gay hunny. Maybe you should find someone that is not so confused. He will come to his reality probably later than sooner, but all you can do is live your life for yourself. Good Luck.
2006-10-16 03:26:59 · answer #1 · answered by Ms.Deb 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's with a girl while you're gone so he won't fall in love with another guy while he's waiting for you to get back! That would make alot of sense to me. If he tells you that he misses you and wishes you were home...I bet that's the deal. If you really wanna know...just ask him! If he does love you...he'll tell you the truth!
2006-10-16 03:22:11 · answer #2 · answered by Q... 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are almost no true bi-sexuals. Most of them are gays who are trying to believe that they go both ways. They can't accept their sexual identity. If he marries a woman she will have a terrible life because he will be drawn to other men constantly. And he will live with constant guilt. This happened to my best friend. He husband left her after 18 years and finally admitted that he was gay. I hope it doesn't take your boyfriend that long to figure it out.
2006-10-16 03:30:30 · answer #3 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes people really can go either way (I am one of them). Sorry to say your relationship is obviously over for *whatever* reasons and you'll be happier when you find a way to move on.
Sure people date for the sake of not being alone, but his reasons are no longer your business.
2006-10-16 03:20:41 · answer #4 · answered by zmj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are upset then that's a prob you need to deal with on a personal level.
If you love to catch...grow a veggie garden.
2006-10-16 03:27:15 · answer #5 · answered by Magicman 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This whole thing is a lie.
2006-10-16 04:13:28 · answer #6 · answered by kool-K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you can be bisexual, i know a couple of ppl like that.
2006-10-16 03:26:00 · answer #7 · answered by gardener24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋