Family & Relationships - 16 October 2006

I just ask the question about my husband and I of 12 years. You can read the paragraph caption " What should I do". Here is the problem. Before we seperated I ask many times about counseling.Absolutely NOT. He will not go. He doesn't feel that we need to tell others about our problems. I know idiot!!!! Anyways, I have over the past year had talks with him and he said that his feeeling haven't changed and the only reason for not filing that he doesn't want to lose my frienship. I have no doubt that he loves and cares for me as a close friend but he also knows that if we divorce that I can't be friends with him any longer. I would always feel their is hope and read something into things he says or does. I understand this might seem ridiculous to some but it is so hard to let some one go that you really love. Thanks for all the replies

2006-10-16 03:54:05 · 4 answers · asked by grits_fla 1 in Marriage & Divorce

STAR WARS!?!? My guy collects anything and everything under the sun that has to so with star wars. Has all the movies, watches them all the time, plays the video games... Anyone else out there able to relate to this?

2006-10-16 03:53:30 · 10 answers · asked by amierob2005 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

he went absolutley crazy, accusing me of cheating on him, he has admitted that doing cocaine has made him act crazy but still thinks that i am cheating on him. i have never even thought about ever cheating on him so this accusation is absolutely ridiculous... how can i convince him that i have been faithful. he promises he is done with this drug what are withdraw symptoms i need to look out for?

2006-10-16 03:52:51 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-16 03:52:50 · 14 answers · asked by Gina 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husbands ex-wife says she had his child at 4 or 5 months long. She claimed it was born at her hometown hospital and it had a hole in its heart and its lungs werent fully developed, so it was brought to childrens hospital............next day my husband was to go to hospital to see if she had a baby and she call and said it was dead.. So my question is how would you find out if she even had a baby? because noone knows if she was even pregnant to begin with. I thought about asking the hospital but they wont give that information to anyone.

2006-10-16 03:52:42 · 9 answers · asked by jessy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

it seems like no matter what i do to better myslef as a person where someone or something holding me back.

2006-10-16 03:52:40 · 4 answers · asked by texasthug420 1 in Friends

if u are a freshman in college and have been dating ur bf since high skool would you move in with him as soon as the semester starts if not how long would you wait

2006-10-16 03:52:01 · 5 answers · asked by J D 1 in Singles & Dating

If yes then how far did you travel, how did you feel, what's your experience?

2006-10-16 03:51:53 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Experts say that it's important to have role models. My first role model was my older brother. He was about 6'4" tall and had an awesome sense of humour. He always stood up for people who would otherwise get picked on (underdogs). He had lots of friends and protected us (his siblings). He graduated university, got married, had 2 children. He liked to party and once had a car that looked like Starsky & Hutch. Sadly, he died in an accident at the young age of 29. I miss him but he lives in my heart and memories. He was admirable and is still my role model today & I'm now 37 years old.

2006-10-16 03:51:50 · 10 answers · asked by TML ♥'er 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Does your partner think that you have it easy because you "don't work"?

2006-10-16 03:51:46 · 6 answers · asked by veronicazombie 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-16 03:51:07 · 8 answers · asked by ? 4 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend went back to his hometown to visit his mom and his X-gf showed up and proposed to him! Now he's not sure about us. This was his first love from years and years of off and on dating. He proposed twice and she ran away both times (literally- she left the state). Now she's back, years later, with a truckload of baggage and she wants him. I'm afraid she just wants to use him for his stability and money. He's totally confused about what to do because he really loved this girl for years. We have been dating for over a year, and we were talking about marriage. Now he wants time to think about it.

Should I dump him and spare myself the humiliation if he chooses her? I really don't want to sit around waiting while he thinks about her all day. I really care about him a lot. I've waited a whole year of deployment to be with him and now he springs this on me a month before I come home. What should I do?

2006-10-16 03:50:46 · 20 answers · asked by sandostrich 3 in Singles & Dating

my b-day is tommorow and my husband hasnt brought up or even asked what i wanted or what i wanted to do...i think he forgot. if he forgets what should i do? should i just go on and pretned like its just another day to make him not fel bad or should i ask him if he rembers my b-day is tommorow.its not like him to forget things but im just worried that he has forgotten.

2006-10-16 03:49:54 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am a bit worried about a friend of mine. She was diagnosed 3 mnths ago, as being HIV positive. She said that as her CD count was over 1200 she didnt have to have any treatment. I would have thought, that they would have started her on ARV immediately, so that she didnt get worse. I am not too clued up on this subject. Please help.

2006-10-16 03:49:51 · 3 answers · asked by Vonnie S 4 in Friends

my boyfriend has a girl name jasmine on his page saying that she is his baby nd my name is no where on the page do u think that he is with her or thats just a friend

2006-10-16 03:49:09 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I thought you want someone beautiful. What thats not true? Your scared of women? Give me a break guys. Grow up and be a man. Women should be intimidated by you not the other way around. Your not GIRLS your MEN act like it.

2006-10-16 03:49:02 · 11 answers · asked by savannahfast 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay I'm in high school, and well theres like these guys that like me. I dont know who I actually like, I stopped having a boyfriend since middle school, I've had good friends, and maybe one or two that said they were my boyfriends, but not really. Now theres this guy real nice, but very shy, he likes me but wont tell me, he dosent know how to be around girls he likes. His real cool, but I'm confused, and his nice so I dont wanna hurt him. Then theres his friend a year younger then me, and well he likes me and already told me, he actually asked me out, but I told him to wait ( cause I like being single, i guess). I think the friend misunderstood me, and my big problem is that I'm not able to say NO, when it comes to this. And my friends tell me I'm very flirtageous, I just considered my self nice and maybe friendly. And well I have another friend, that has a girl friend, but somehow made out with me, and I was like what that f( ), I did explain to him that, was not possible. HELP !!

2006-10-16 03:48:56 · 8 answers · asked by angelica 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

They're not official ... and this girl is amazing. Thoughts? Strategies?

2006-10-16 03:48:42 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to ask a guy i talk to whenever i see him for his number but i'm not sure how to approach this. suggestions plz....

2006-10-16 03:48:05 · 5 answers · asked by Erin 2 in Singles & Dating

I know a guy that frequently gets beaten up by his wife. He comes into work with black eyes etc. Has anyone else come across this before?

2006-10-16 03:47:37 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i like to think so!! i see it as 'karma' or 'reaping what they sow'...coz if someone is nice to me - i'll be nice to them , but if they are not nice to me - how the F*ck do they expect me to be nice to them? I aint fake - and i CAN'T do it! I'm all sweetness and light - if THEY are all sweetness and light to me! if not...watch out - i give them as good as i get - if not better! :-)

2006-10-16 03:47:11 · 35 answers · asked by chandra 6 in Singles & Dating

serious answers please.

2006-10-16 03:46:31 · 31 answers · asked by jami p 2 in Singles & Dating

im in a new school setting and even after 5 weeks theres noone i can relate to

2006-10-16 03:46:20 · 8 answers · asked by Eye of the Beholder 4 in Friends

split up with my fella 3 weeks ago and still feeling a bit crap about it all,i know we aint spose to be together! boo hoo

2006-10-16 03:45:57 · 12 answers · asked by spadgeroo2012 2 in Singles & Dating

I have 3 kids- 6yr. in school-3yr. at home-19mo. at home. I started married life just out of highsch. Since I was 15 I have worked every day after sch. for at least 4 hr. and even some weekends for 8 per day. I always thought "how cool to stay home and not work" We got married and got preg. right away. I was going to stay home how awsome right! After my daughter turned 9 mo. I started to go insane. So I went to beauty school. When I graduated I worked very part time and still do today. I yern to work more. I have had enough of the house wife bit. Not that I dont think its work or love my kids I just want to have a career or just be out of the house more. I feel like Im always doing the same old thing over and over...... Now I cant seem to do the simple things that I have always done. Plan meals, get all laundry done, clean, things that need to be done daily. What am I going to do!! Day care is so exp. and my husb doesnt want me to work evenings!!! Help!!

2006-10-16 03:45:37 · 8 answers · asked by runzwsizorz 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

im worried that my wife and her friends will talk about personal things, possibly about my "performance".

do you think my wife may have told her friends about me? and will this limit my chances with them now?

2006-10-16 03:45:00 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we've been together 6 years and i've bought him all the usuall presents....like watches,clothes,jewellery,games for his ps2 but this year i wanna get something different.any idea's?

2006-10-16 03:43:02 · 26 answers · asked by vicki 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-16 03:42:43 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I wanna to talk by messenger with any portuguese that live in London, I`m a portuguese woman and I wanna to talk with anyone that are portuguese and live in London

2006-10-16 03:42:41 · 1 answers · asked by gatinha3192 2 in Friends

My husband complains to his friends that I am not a good wife.I don't clean the house,cook, bring in enough money.I work 40hours a week in a hospital.I am on my feet all the time.I have 2 kids.I use to be militant about my cleaning but since my husband does both his jobs from home i.e.fixing cars I can't seem to be able to clean up enough.Now besides toys I have car parts to put away

2006-10-16 03:41:18 · 57 answers · asked by JUSEve 2 in Marriage & Divorce