I thought you want someone beautiful. What thats not true? Your scared of women? Give me a break guys. Grow up and be a man. Women should be intimidated by you not the other way around. Your not GIRLS your MEN act like it.
2006-10-16 03:49:02 · 11 answers · asked by savannahfast 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In a soceity raised by singl emothers these days, we tend to have some of the same slef-conscious complexes that plague you as well. Is that bad? We too have body images and fears of rejection.
2006-10-16 03:53:09 · answer #1 · answered by Raijin78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your 14-year-old responder doesn't have a clue. For starters, most men are not intimidated by beautiful, smart women (quite to the contrary; most men find a good-looking woman that has a brain VERY attractive). Secondly, most men would rather approach an average-looking woman because the majority of the "hotties" are either (a) very shallow, (b) very conceited, or (c) both. We would rather have "real" women who don't think they're all that and are only interested in looks and money. Third, guys DO NOT find the good girls boring. While it's true that there are a lot of guys out there that are just playing the field, most guys in their heart of hearts are looking for a woman they can take home to Mom. Finally, MEN are after relationships -- players and broke-d!ck-dog little boys are after one-night stands.
2016-03-28 11:29:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are not!!!! Some women that are beautiful are up them selves too much and we dont like that!!
I will chat to anyone and have never been intimidated in my life. Some women although beautiful dont fulfill what we are looking for wrong class ( if you know what I mean ) and some women have the looks but absolutely nothing in the way of brains now that is painful trying to have a conversation with a really pretty girl that is sooo dense that she almost needs Velcro trainers.
Anyway a lot of the time us men figure she is so pretty she must have a boyfriend so we just dont bother or aren't feeling like getting into a fight that night.
Besides I believe in fate if it is meant to be it will be.
I dont agree with the below answer ( speak for your self ) I am very good looking and love consumerism. Dont blame good looking people for the insecuritiesof others.
2006-10-16 03:57:39 · answer #3 · answered by Fox Hunter 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well for me when I see a beautiful girl I figure that she is taken already and it would be a waste of time to ask her for her number. I guess guys like to go for the for sure thing. A girl that is not as beautiful is probably not taken, well that is what we figure at least. Guys hate to be rejected and going for a beautiful girl is a for sure way to get rejected. At least that is how we think. Also, guys with beautiful girls have to worry about other guys constantly hitting on her. This can be very stressful. It is like we can't leave you alone for a minute. We worry that someone is going to take you away from us. But, it is stupid.. I wish I had the guts to go for a beautiful girl. I am 32 years old and you think I would have stopped caring about rejection by now.. But, I guess not..LOL. Take care.. And if you are in the Chicago area, perhaps I will ask you out for a date..
2006-10-16 04:00:41 · answer #4 · answered by MightyRighty 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It is not that we are intimidated, it is that we cannot compete against the consumerism and hype that surrounds the majority of women. How do you expect up to compete with the images you use as a base on which to judge men. How do we stack up to the beautiful but totally unreal images you venerate in Cosmopolitan or any other of the magazines you religiously subscribe to? How can we possibly live up to the fairy tale standards you are so addicted to?
Once you start acting like the natural beings you are, we may start acting in a way that fits more to reality and not romantic fiction.
2006-10-16 03:58:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
A real man is not scared of beutiful women..... a real man wants a woman who is not high on herself. She may be beutiful but it is the heart that counts as looks fade. Every guy just knows this. So work on yourself and think about why you are unapproachable. There are plenty of guys who can see right through your stuff and realize that you want what we all do.. someone to love.
2006-10-16 05:36:24 · answer #6 · answered by jackson 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think it's their own insecurity... they don't really want someone that's gonna attract other attention... atleast that's been the scenario for me. I think men should be proud they are with an attractive woman... they should be proud that other men think that as well... but NO, doesn't work that way, cause you're blamed for it....
I totally agree with you.
2006-10-16 03:54:28 · answer #7 · answered by sneakyfker 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am not intimidated at all, ussually the other way around like you said.
2006-10-16 03:53:31 · answer #8 · answered by seaking 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Amen to that
So just wondering are beautiful or just plain ugly ?
2006-10-16 03:53:26 · answer #9 · answered by dragor321 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GUYS ARE DUMB....they go for the "Sure" thing...i guess they hate it when beautiful girls let them down..so they go for the sure thing...jajajajajajajaja
2006-10-16 03:55:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋