i like to think so!! i see it as 'karma' or 'reaping what they sow'...coz if someone is nice to me - i'll be nice to them , but if they are not nice to me - how the F*ck do they expect me to be nice to them? I aint fake - and i CAN'T do it! I'm all sweetness and light - if THEY are all sweetness and light to me! if not...watch out - i give them as good as i get - if not better! :-)
2006-10-16 03:47:11 · 35 answers · asked by chandra 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am so with you girl !!
2006-10-16 03:48:45 · answer #1 · answered by simon m 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No matter what people do to us we should never become like them. We should be better than they are. Most people have a reason for their being mean or a trouble maker. Look beyond the situation and see why they are the way they are. If we get revenge on someone, something bad could happen to us because of the choice we made, not them. It may feel good at first to avenge ourselves, but the person we are inside is going to start being someone we all want to avoid. { The person you are avenging.} Just keep your distance from people who have no respect for you. If you can't, tell them to keep their distance or change. In the long run you will be happier with your self.
2006-10-16 04:00:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i`m a bit gobsmacked by a lot of these answers. why lower urself to a low lifes level? i`ve had plenty done to me in my time and never once got revenge and i feel i`m a better person for it. getting revenge means other innocent people could in theory get in the way of it too. would that make u feel good? no wonder this planet is so screwed up!
2006-10-16 05:36:40 · answer #3 · answered by graham f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i like to think that revenge is sweet as well but not if i like go over board. but other than that im a good nice guy but if someone ***** with my gf or family, than i seek vengeance or i confront them and sometimes thats the best vengeance.
2006-10-16 03:50:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im with you, if someone is not nice then i cant sit there and be nice!
Id like to think that karma would eventually get them but i think sometimes you have to step in and give karma a hand!
2006-10-16 03:49:53 · answer #5 · answered by Beth G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bitter sweet. But you dont seem to have much empathy for people, so you will get a lot of this in your life time. Sometimes it hurts people more, when you smile and walk away. You sound like you have a lot of issues, so I dont think advice on this site wont be of much help to you. You going to do what you want to anyway.??
2006-10-16 03:56:24 · answer #6 · answered by Vonnie S 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't normally answer questions in this section but the sheer bitterness in your comments compels me! Relationships are not contests. They are based on compromise not victory or defeat.
Be patient and all will work out in the end. Not all men or women are complete bast**ds.
2006-10-16 04:27:17 · answer #7 · answered by des c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes karma
i will let karma take it course but sometime i will like to give a helping hand to it
but u have the devil in u
release the demons girl
2006-10-16 03:51:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best revenge is love. It really f**ked up my ex and her family because they wanted me to be angery. Anger is self-distructive. 4 years on my ex's husband doesn't trust her because she painted a diffrent picture of me.
Now thats revenge.
2006-10-16 05:57:11 · answer #9 · answered by John T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Equilibrium, to even out the balance of nature. It’s neither sweet nor bitter. It’s both, It may taste sweet new but it taste nasty later.
2006-10-16 03:52:11 · answer #10 · answered by Kenshin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so because what you give out - you get back in ten fold! Whatever has happened to you by the actions of someone cruel, they will eventually get theirs!
2006-10-16 03:50:48 · answer #11 · answered by DikiDoo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋