Okay I'm in high school, and well theres like these guys that like me. I dont know who I actually like, I stopped having a boyfriend since middle school, I've had good friends, and maybe one or two that said they were my boyfriends, but not really. Now theres this guy real nice, but very shy, he likes me but wont tell me, he dosent know how to be around girls he likes. His real cool, but I'm confused, and his nice so I dont wanna hurt him. Then theres his friend a year younger then me, and well he likes me and already told me, he actually asked me out, but I told him to wait ( cause I like being single, i guess). I think the friend misunderstood me, and my big problem is that I'm not able to say NO, when it comes to this. And my friends tell me I'm very flirtageous, I just considered my self nice and maybe friendly. And well I have another friend, that has a girl friend, but somehow made out with me, and I was like what that f( ), I did explain to him that, was not possible. HELP !!
2006-10-16 03:48:56 · 8 answers · asked by angelica 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
"I dont know who I actually like" - you
Don't pick a guy to date out of obligation, pick a guy to date because you like him. If you don't like any of them, don't go out with any of them. It will just hurt you and the guy eventually if you start dating him without having mutual feelings for him.
2006-10-16 03:51:51 · answer #1 · answered by Ben R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You remind me of myself. I used to not being able to say NO to anyone so i ended up making out with my best friend and cheating on my boyfriend. I had a hard time during High School, but somehow i managed it through. I relized i had to follow my feeling, the one i really liked was my boyfriend at that time. So try and follow your heart! You'l ge through this.
2006-10-16 10:55:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As much as it pains me to say it for a person who is not shy himself - you can never really go wrong with the shy ones. Fact is, even if it won't end up as being a lifetime deal (which it probably won't, seeing as you're in high school) you'll have boosted his ego and changed his life for the better. As for the other person, in 20 years you'll be to him as he will be to you - just another name on a rather long list of ex'.
2006-10-16 10:51:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Choose the quiet guy. Just see what he's all about. This could be humbling for you and don't worry about the other two. There are plenty of guys like that.
2006-10-16 10:53:01 · answer #4 · answered by j.tech_77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok my advice to you is to go out with the shy guy...I you dont want to be seen with an underclassman boyfriend and not to mention that this guy could be really something special...
...I was that shy guy that my current girlfriend was hesitant on dating but now its going on 10months and we couldnt be happier...my shyness is gone and i'm a whole new person..
..give it a shot I think youll like it.
good luck!
2006-10-16 10:52:39 · answer #5 · answered by Bar19one 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy a dog. It comes easier.
2006-10-16 10:51:53 · answer #6 · answered by malamas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Choose the one who treat you better.
2006-10-16 10:51:43 · answer #7 · answered by kinga310 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow your heart on this
2006-10-16 10:51:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋