They're not official ... and this girl is amazing. Thoughts? Strategies?
2006-10-16 03:48:42 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am in the same boat my friend so I will watch you rthread and see where it goes. Good luck to you!
2006-10-16 03:50:33 · answer #1 · answered by Raijin78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since he is not her boyfriend yet you could ask her and it wouldn't be wrong. You sound like you really like this girl a lot and you proabaly wouldn't wanna share her with this other guy. So if you decide I would go ahead and ask her out on a date then if yall really like each other then ask her out. . . Me and my boyfriend were talking for about a week before he asked me out and he wasn't talking to any other girls and if you really like this girl show her you want to be with her and that you would never hurt her in anyway If you show her you are committed then most likely she will respect you and wanna be with you too well that is if you and her get along really well. . .On the other hand I would watch it though if she also starts dating you and you ask her to be your girlfriend and she says no I just wanna date you a little bit long to get to know you better I would get out of it because she proabably will say knowing that she doesn't really wanna commit to one person and that could get your heart broken. . .If you want to talk to me about this or anything you can email me at mrs.hammond06
2006-10-16 04:00:29 · answer #2 · answered by Smile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you say that they aren't official? Only they know. Step back and see where their relationship is going. If you are a decent guy, you would want someone to show you the same respect.
2006-10-16 03:56:19 · answer #3 · answered by leigh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way, there are too many women interior the sea, and if she is being shady now what makes you think of she wont in a relationship? i would not have the skill to believe that she is over this guy and no person needs be a rebound. i could say pass on, if she is into then you definitely she would be in a position to work out your shifting on and commence coming near you.
2016-10-19 12:00:28 · answer #4 · answered by briscoe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pros:
She might be better off with you than him.
You will be better off with her than without her.
Cons:
She might be worse off with you than him.
He will presumably be better off with her than without her.
So, unless you have some compelling reason to believe that you
are better for her then she is, it comes down to whether you would
prefer that he end up with the girl or you end up with the girl.
I hope that choice is obvious to you, but then again, who knows.
However - all of this is beside the point: She is the one who will
choose between you and her current guy. Do you think she should
have the choice? If not, say nothing. If so, then it is up to her whether
or not she's going to hurt him or you.
She is not married to him. She has no children with him.
When people date for the first time, they are not committing themselves
to the other person for the rest of their lives.
But yes ... somebody will get hurt. That is the nature of the mating game.
If you say nothing, that person will ALWAYS be you.
2006-10-16 03:56:11 · answer #5 · answered by Elana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not atall! Is not worth when you know very well someone is already dating a lady; a fearing God person should never do such a thing, rather, look for yours and asuch, there are sickness all over, what if such person is not free from such sickness. My advised to you is look for yours and stick to her, settled your differences whenever, the differences arrised. Thank you.
2006-10-16 04:16:36 · answer #6 · answered by JoeKay 2006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is not official, then you can ask her out... If they have only being seeing each other, then I would back up a few steps....
2006-10-16 03:51:06 · answer #7 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dating as in simple courtship? Let her know in some simple way you are interested. For all you know she is into you not him but thinks you may not be in her. Just drop simple little hints to see if she responds. Never know unless you try. GOOD LUCK..
2006-10-16 03:51:41 · answer #8 · answered by mitsufrog 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are not official, then I see no harm in just asking her out directly.
2006-10-16 03:50:33 · answer #9 · answered by doggoneit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is dating someone stay away from her unless you are ready to fight...anyone who tries to break up a couple deserves their *** beat regardless the situation....
2006-10-16 03:52:29 · answer #10 · answered by KaKes 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋