he went absolutley crazy, accusing me of cheating on him, he has admitted that doing cocaine has made him act crazy but still thinks that i am cheating on him. i have never even thought about ever cheating on him so this accusation is absolutely ridiculous... how can i convince him that i have been faithful. he promises he is done with this drug what are withdraw symptoms i need to look out for?
2006-10-16 03:52:51 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well, as long as he's only doing it on Fridays...
2006-10-16 03:54:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're headed for trouble. Oddly enough, I'm less troubled by the cocaine than I am the constant accusation of cheating. People who are always accusing of cheating are either extremely insecure or covering up guilt of their own.
THIS WILL NOT GET BETTER. Jealousy combined with the accusations you're receiving is called manipulation. If you keep hanging around, you'll only feed into it. Trust is the foundation of any healthy relationship. The more you try to build without that foundation, the bigger your fall will be.
2006-10-16 12:48:00 · answer #2 · answered by ezenbrowntown 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cocaine does make you paranoid but is out of your system in 2 days. The only withdrawal I can think of is getting a little down in the dumps a couple of days after. Just a thought, but when guys accuse you of cheating its usually because they are. You might want to give that a thought.
2006-10-16 11:03:36 · answer #3 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your biggest concern right now should not be convicing him that your not cheating, but getting him some help. If you really do love him (and it sounds like you do). Then you need take him to rehab.I am not an expert but I think that most withdrawl symptoms are pain, he needs to leave the house for any and every reason, you are missing stuff, things like that. Or he may be cheating on you and he just using you cheating on him as a exuse to leave you.
2006-10-16 11:00:20 · answer #4 · answered by Deneisha D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cocaine makes most of people paranoid and s very addictive . i used 2 do it every day , it s a miracle i m still here and happy . u don t want 2 date an adict , it will drain u financially and emotionly . once or twice s not a problem as long as he keep it like that . look out for money and stuff missing and u will no if he s into that big time .
2006-10-16 11:00:44 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he admitted to doing it on Friday, he has probably done it before as well. You need to run as fast as you can the other direction. People usually don't start their drug addictions with cocaine. He is probably using other drugs as well. Get out now!!
2006-10-16 10:59:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow....you are actually more concerned with the fact that hes accusing you of cheating? dont even think about staying with him. leave him and tell him you dont want him as long as hes doing drugs. what kind of real man doesnt value his health? his life? thats really sad...and hes trying to find a reason to blame you to get attention off of him. tell him you are leaving him....and actually DO IT! plus, most guys accusing you of cheating is doing it himself!
2006-10-16 11:03:12 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on until he gets professional. He's got coke paranoia and he might do something else to you besides accuse. He'll steal, lie and cheat to keep his habit. Move on while you can, sister. Godloveya.
2006-10-16 10:57:19 · answer #8 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this the only time he has done coke??? If not, leave, if so, he tried it once and hopefully that is it. If he does not believe you that you have not cheated on him and isn't, then there is nothing more you can do. Either he trusts you or not and if not, time to say bye bye.
2006-10-16 10:56:33 · answer #9 · answered by GQ69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any one doing drugs is mentally ill and you do not need that noose around your neck. Get rid of the animal before he hurts you.
You don't owe him anything. He isn't worth the future a drug addict will give you, and your kids.
2006-10-16 10:57:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would get as far away from him as possible. Cocaine is extremely addicting and chances are he will be doing it again. Break it off, end all contact - and do it immediately.
2006-10-16 10:55:05 · answer #11 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋