my boyfriend lied to me... ok there is this girl who work in the same cmpany that he is working except it is far away so they work over the phone. so they comunicate alot.. wel so i found porn and stuf on his computre that she had sent him and she phoned him late at night(so cant be work) so i asked who phoned and he lied and said it was some one else. when i found out that he had lied to me he said that he didn't want to tell me it was her coz he didnt want to fight about nothing. and i asked him but why do they talk and send stuff like that so he said she is very unatractive and he feel sorry for het and do not want to hurt het feeling by being mean to her??? what do u think
2006-10-16 03:13:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
give the guy a chance.. he had a good reason 2 lie.. its his way of keeping the peace in the home front.. don't try 2 be 2 hard on him.. pushing the limit will cause him 2 stray.. but now if he has been caught in lies 2 you before.. then you have reason 2 worry.. if you look 4 hurt, you will find it.. and its not what we think.. what do you think.. are you ready 2 make the break or are you ready 2 make your relationship better, by putting in trust..
2006-10-16 03:53:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This has all the makings of an after hours relationship. Better keep your eyes peeled for anything strange that might develop between the two of them. It's just better to tell the truth and deal with the fight rather than to lie and deal with being called a liar, at least with the truth the trust factor is still somewhat intact.
2006-10-16 10:21:51 · answer #2 · answered by Special K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People lie when they have something to hide.
You want a man you can trust and rely upon. A man who will put your best intrest first. I hate to say it, but he's not it. He has demonstrated some bad judgement as well, by getting involved with a woman whom he works with.
This isn't the guy for you. You want someone you can trust and give your heart to 100%. NOT someone who has red flags waving!
The man you are looking for is still out there looking for you! Go find him before ti's too late! Good luck!
2006-10-16 13:10:50 · answer #3 · answered by DaBoomvang 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a bunch of crap. Does he send porn back and forth to all the people he feels sorry for??? That's not exactly helping them. ITs one thing to form a friendship with someone because you feel sorry for them, but this has gone too far. Being sexual and talking about sexual things is something that should only happen with your boyfriend/girlfriend. He KNEW he was doing something wrong, becuase he was sneaking around and lying about it. I think this guy is not to be trusted....you better think twice about going any farther here.
2006-10-16 10:24:26 · answer #4 · answered by EllisFan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
?hey honey wake up and smell the coffee!! kick that boy to the kerb! once a liar ,always a liar! there is a saying " you can watch a thief but you can't watch a liar" !. there will always be that little niggle of doubt is he really telling the truth?. and whats the story about hurting her feelings,? its yours he should be concerned about!!!! your his girlfriend!!!also if he really cared about your feelings and maintaining your trust he would have told this girl to take a hike when that nonsense started.!!!
2006-10-16 10:21:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you deserve better. He's most likely lying which means something is going on. He's not talking to her just because he feels sorry for her. If he felt bad for her, he'd make you talk to her. Get it? Don't let him get away with cheating. Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me. Make sense?
2006-10-16 10:16:49 · answer #6 · answered by NSisifo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He shouldn't have lied to you but do you trust him enough to know that he want cheat on you if so then go with it
2006-10-16 10:16:28 · answer #7 · answered by Scooby_doo06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him b for he cheats u again
2006-10-16 10:19:43 · answer #8 · answered by Frendlygal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get another boyfriend, or lie too
2006-10-16 10:16:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is sneaking around on you,, tell him your feelings, and see what he says,
2006-10-16 10:15:02 · answer #10 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋