Why adult children after marriage slowly care less about their parents?

Question

In India where "Mata Pita Guru Deivam" ,meaning Mother, Fatherand Teacher should be considered equivalent to God.This value system is slowly disappearing.When elderly parents emotionally and physically need support, why are they being dumped to fend for themselves.Particularly mothers find it too hard.

Answer 1

This happens in America too. People need to find the right spouses who understand that family is FAMILY, not incidental biological appendage. Because if the woman marries the wrong man, she will never see her family to help them. Same for men, if they marry the wrong woman, he will not be able to help them.

In America, many older people also just want to get away from the younger ones anyway, go spend their money, avoid being bothered, but hopefully they have thought out their futures enough to when they will need help someday, coz only some younger people are still doing that these days...thinking of their elders....

Answer 2

After I became a parent at 20, I loved being around my parents. We had so much in common, but as I got older my views on life changed, my mother died almost three years ago. And my father remarried that same year. But now I have no relationship with my father, because of his new wife. I get along with my step mom, but I very seldom speak to my dad. He doesn't push for a relationship with me, or my three children. But he does have allot to say to my brother, and ex husband it's just the norm today.

Answer 3

The adult children is burdened with the modern rat race.Hence has little time for deep relationship.Parents also expect too much from them forgetting the pressure the children have around them. Parents should adjust to this pressures which will ease to a large extend.

Answer 4

properly think of roughly it in case you instruct your infants with regard to the bits and bobs of pre-marital intercourse and each little thing which could come alongside with it then young ones would not be out doing it all of the time. while you're to lazy to instruct your infants then you definately will finally end up with a toddler who's pregnant or has an STD. It additionally relies upon on the form of parent you're, in case you tell your infants "you may come and talk with me approximately something and you heavily isn't in challenge" how many father and mom have genuinely gotten indignant...a lot, which finally ends up remaining the door to verbal substitute and thats quite what it boils right down to. in case you have super verbal substitute such as your infants from an extremely youthful age then pre-marital intercourse could be prevented. so specific undesirable parenting could make a contribution to pre-marital intercourse.

Answer 5

I think that in general people are getting more selfish. My parents and their needs were still very important to me after I was married. When they got older, I helped them all of the time. We don't all care less about are parents when we marry.

Answer 6

This case is mostly common in boys. girls always take care of their parents.as 4 the boys its so coz they have 2 worry about their wife also.

Answer 7

FIRST OF ALL AFTER THE MARRIAGE THE BOY GOT ANOTHER RESPONSIBILITY. BUT IT IS DOES NOT MEAN THAT HE WOULD NOT HELP TO HIS PARENTS. IT IS NOT WITH ALL BUT SOME STUPID PEOPLE FORGET THEIR PARENTS AFTER MARRIAGE.

Answer 8

the world is changing

Answer 9

world is fast changing and rotating in 33333333333333333miles per hour,,,,,,,what can we do ,,thats what happens,,,don't worry about that and enjoy every moment of ur life

Answer 10

Well, why don't you post in the India section then?