I'm confused. I met a guy a month ago and sometimes we hook-up, without sex. He's invited me to a couple of his friends' parties, including that of a girl who he expressed interest in having sex with. He told me that he found her "pretty hot" but he was "not sure if she was his type to actually date." He tells me that he's trying out the dating scene because he just got out of a long-term relationship. Anyway, I've met both his roommates and some of his friends. I can't figure out what he wants from me. We talk about how confused the both of us are in life and how we're trying to find what we're passionate about...I mean, what does he want from me? Why does he invite me to his friends' parties? He also then tells me that he met a "cool" girl at a bar, and I said "why, because she'll f*ck you?" haha Anyway, he comes home to my apartment after the parties without me asking but we don't have sex. What does he want from me? He calls me about once a week to hang out...
2006-10-16 00:05:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He asks me weird questions like "why did you decide to live alone in your apartment?" He looked through my closet. He asks me about my feelings with my guy friends. He asks me if I ever think about what married life would be like. But then he tells me about other girls. I'm just very confused.
2006-10-16 00:06:46 · update #1
We're not really dating nor in a relationship..
Poster 5: What do you mean he's a stalker? He has my number and he knows where I live...not really a need for stalking eh.
2006-10-16 00:12:54 · update #2
Poster 6: He's really good looking, and get's a lot of girls who want sex with him. He has had "f*ck" buddies in the past. I guess he finds me challenging, but I will never have sex with him. I don't know what he wants to be honest. He denies a lot of girls though.
2006-10-16 00:15:27 · update #3
He could like you, or just want sex from you down the road. It's really hard to say without asking him. A guy is just not going to want to just be friends without any benefits. If I were you I would just ask him what your asking us and get a straight up answer from him.
2006-10-16 00:14:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When u ask somebody else 4 an answer, I don't think that person can give a precise answer. If u're a cristian than pray 2 God n ask 4 help n also ask that guy. I f ur not, than try to just ask that guy 4 the truth. By the way, try not to stay away from sex as far as u can coz it's to dangerous!
2006-10-16 07:16:55 · answer #2 · answered by Crystal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He seems to be liking you ... but does not wish to destroy the friendship by asking you for ***..
Infact to a great extent it seems he does not wish to have *** with you coz he respects you. And finds a friend in you with whom he can talk about intimate topics like physical relations with women.
Some boys are like that. Dont worry. He seems to be nice inside, though however 'dude' he may seem outside. His behaviour is derived from his longterm relation breakup. But inside hes still craving for true love.
If you are thinking about this guy seriously, then I wud say give him the best friendly companionship you can. Maybe this can turn out to be a wonderful and long term relationship.
Having a guy who can be crystal clear and honest with you is the best thing you can ask for in relationship terms.
2006-10-16 07:15:10 · answer #3 · answered by Frank_walker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start having sex with him, make it special, Prolong O to completion A and outdoor stuff, tell him you share the same taste in girls xx live happilyy ever after......or listen to the religious nutters on here and live alone forever xx your call
2006-10-16 07:10:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like he is interested to know u as a friend.and he is comfortable telling you about the gals he likes.if he even lust after you, he should at least did some hanky panky with you but he didnt.
2006-10-16 07:23:03 · answer #5 · answered by pristine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOOK a man who expresses having or wanting sex with another is a sicko. PLUS he asked QUESTIONS ABOUT living alone.THIS man gives me the creeps by you just talking about him. RUN RUN RUN a way from him. CHANGE your telephone number.THIS MAN IS A STALKER
2006-10-16 07:11:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes he does
2006-10-16 07:06:34 · answer #7 · answered by sleepwalker69 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think, he like u...but, he don't know how to tell u about it...may B, he shy or anything else...
2006-10-16 07:26:32 · answer #8 · answered by mE_MiKaeL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he is interested about your life...
2006-10-16 07:09:18 · answer #9 · answered by miserable 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him
2006-10-16 07:06:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋