I'm really having a difficult time dealing with the end of a relationship and i NEED to move on so badly. What do you do that helps?
2006-10-16 06:08:59 · 16 answers · asked by goddess1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The first thing to do is not to blame yourself and decide that it is time to move on - for your benefit.
Get involved with something positive, anything (music, learn a hobby, sports, etc). These are all things that will keep your mind on what's important - you !
Things will come around all by themselves, until then you cannot dwell on something that has already passed. Look forward, not behind you - after all, forward is where your going.
Best of wishes from here forward.
2006-10-16 06:18:34 · answer #1 · answered by jarhed 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel. I know everyone says time, but its true time heals. Don't let your sadness get the best of you, you will later realize how much time and life you have wasted feeling sad and sorry for yourself. Get involved with something you have always wanted to do but never had the time. Friends and Family can help, you are not alone remember that. I know you may not want to hear this now but eventually you will be grateful for the experience and the fact that you loved. You will love again..
2006-10-16 13:34:39 · answer #2 · answered by Shy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With the help of a close friend (or friends) you can trust to not repeat what you tell them. If necessary, with the help of clergy or a professional counselor that can help you deal with the pain of the ending relationship. Don't worry, what you describe is not that uncommon. But don't be afraid to face the issues.
2006-10-16 13:13:14 · answer #3 · answered by lmnop 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hows this.........
I said a prayer for you today
And know God must have heard-
I felt the answer in my heart
Although He spoke no word!
I didn't ask for wealth or fame
(I knew you wouldn't mind)-
I asked Him to send you treasures
Of a far more lasting kind!
I asked that He'd be near you
At the start of each new day
To grant you health and blessings
And my friendship to share your way!
I asked for happiness for you
In all things great and small-
But it was for His loving care
I prayed the most of all!
By: Kenny P. aka-Cobra
2006-10-16 13:10:57 · answer #4 · answered by Cobra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby girl, keep your self occupy. join a gym or some type of activities with friends. try not to stay home alone that much. otherwise your mind will wonder back and experience the pain again.
2006-10-16 13:35:31 · answer #5 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two words: Rebound guy.
Go out and find someone to hang out with. Use him to make you feel better.
Just be clear that you are using him as a rebound. Most guys won't care.
Then ditch him and find yourself a new guy.
2006-10-16 13:16:54 · answer #6 · answered by analystdevil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep yoyourself occupied... you don't want to be sitting at home by urself... + if your out with another guy...maybe just a guy friend having a good time it may make his realize what he had and want u back!
2006-10-16 13:11:10 · answer #7 · answered by --Br0oklYn-- 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the same place as you right now. It hurts so bad, I know. I'm trying to be around people and talking to others. It takes time... so much time.
2006-10-16 13:15:10 · answer #8 · answered by ohjoy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just stop loving him all you need yo do is make him a memory in the back of your head...don't let it bother you i was in this kind of thing before me and my boyfriend broke up and i coundt let go i realized that he was the only thing keeping me alive and we just weren't meant to be....but no I'm past that now he is just a memory...i stopped loving my boo and i think that u can too
2006-10-16 13:16:19 · answer #9 · answered by HaNnAh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing is Time.......time and more time......that's the only thing that's going to help. In the meantime, keep yourself busy, busy, busy! Good Luck!
2006-10-16 13:12:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋