Family & Relationships - 16 October 2006

Why are Asian women such sellouts that they'd point out to Asian male intollerance when the real intolerance exist with white guys when it comes to Asian interracial relationships?
Asian American females often assert that Asian males are intolerant of Asian female/white male interracial relationships yet the truth is that any intolerance with Asian interracial relationships exists with white males who support Asian female/White male relationships yet denounce Asian male/white female relationships or any relationship involving white females and nonwhite males in general. Not only do white males have a history of violence and prohibition against these kinds of relationships but they have shown their discontent of these relationships through violence, laws that inhibit these relationships and in modern times divergent depictions of support for white males in interracial relationships and disapproval of Asian males in relationships with white females and any relationships of nonwhite males with white females in general.

Asian females do not have the right to question Asian male tolerance towards Asian female interracial relationships with white males as Asian males have been more than tolerant with these kinds of relationships probably to a fault. The fact that there aren't news stories about Asian males acting disapprovingly towards Af/WM relationships by spitting, punching, verbally abusing or trying to physically or socially inhibit these relationships prove that Asian males are more decent guys than white guys when it comes to these kinds of relationships. White males have had a history of inhibiting their women from having relationships with nonwhite males even to this day through violence, passing of laws, social and media conditioning and other despicable acts of intolerance.

In modern times, white males are prevented from committing racist and hypocritical actions to prevent nonwhite male unions with white females by law, yet these racist and hypocritical sentiments are shown through social disapproval and media disapproval of nonwhite males with white females and support for white male/nonwhite female relationships. This includes violent and threatening actions shown to relationships between nonwhite males and white women.

If white males were given the power, they would make every effort to inhibit relationships between white women and nonwhite males. In modern times, the only real way the white male can control interracial relationships is to manipulate images in the media hoping that these images would shield white women from interracial relationships with nonwhite males and if possible promote nonwhite female relationships with white males.

It's difficult for white males to manipulate the black and Hispanic community in this regard because their population sizes are too large and because they have political and social influence that Asians do not have. Blacks in this country have the NAACP, Nation of Islam, Bloods and Crips street gangs to defend against white media denigration and manipulation of their people. If they can't influence the media to control their image through politics, they can thug their way to make sure that their images are portrayed correctly. Hispanic groups have a huge population base with bordering nations which minimizes them from the negative effects of the American media. A majority of them keep true to their identity which makes it hard for the media to control their social patterns.

Asian people neither have a large population size in this country nor do they have any prominent social or political groups that can defend against the negative manipulation of the white media which allows whites to divide and manipulate Asian Americans. They have made Asian female interracial relationships with white males acceptable yet denounce any unions between Asian males and white females. Though this hasn't stopped Asian male interracial relationships with white females, they are doing their best to make sure that Asian males have a hard time with these relationships.

Asian women are deserving of the "sell out" moniker not because they're in interracial relationship with white males but because even though they know that white males have a history of racist hypocritical patterns when it comes to Asian interracial relationships, they see no reason to question this hypocrisy yet finds it easy to blame Asian males to boaster their hypocritical behavior.

Asian females do not have the right to question Asian guys for questioning their interracial relationships when white males have had a history of making it illegal and in the present time denouncing Asian male relationships with white females. It is because of the Asian female's unquestionable acceptance of white male hypocrisy and racist pattern which includes constant deriding of Asian males to support their relationships that they are worthy of the sell out moniker from Asian males and everybody else who’s familiar the meaning of word "decency."

2006-10-16 06:55:19 · 8 answers · asked by sidewinder45 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

people say that all what men think about is sex. how about women?
what are the most three important thing that a woman think about in their head (from a woman point of view)?

2006-10-16 06:55:10 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-16 06:54:35 · 23 answers · asked by mehecana 2 in Family

Fantisize about a different person whil having intimit times with your partener? Me yes,when i was younger.

2006-10-16 06:54:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend has been in this relationship for a while now. He won't call her, never has money for anything, everything they do has to be on his own time and his way, they have to go where he wants to go do what he wants to do, and if it's not he throws a fit and refuses to go out with us or even her, job isn't good, barely any schooling ,they fight a lot!!! And she calls him a worthless loser and says all the time, Why am I even with him...yet...she still is??? Why do you think she sticks around?

2006-10-16 06:53:11 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

which one bless the marriage more? having an expensive wedding, ring, a big house? or having a simple ceremony?

2006-10-16 06:52:37 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

She's fallen for a man with a whole rash of kids and seems to be oblivious to the implications of the whole situation.

2006-10-16 06:52:09 · 13 answers · asked by bovie 4 in Singles & Dating

he has told me he is seen in someone but always ends up telling me he only says that to get me 2 shut up in one or more occasions he has been spotted around this girl i have a big, big feeling he is been with he claims no but doesnt take the time 2 make me feel that what he is saying is true & that i shouldnt think like that, we have 2 girls 2gether but i left the house about 2 mon ago! out of that time i think he only called maybe 1 week straight and i feel he only called a week straight cuz i wouldnt give in on been intimate with him!!i dont want to begg him anymore but find my self calling him all the time he is not responsible with the girls and the few times he has seen them he cant think of a place to take them or what to do with them to have a good time. i know its over but how do i move on if still hurts this much, i keep just talking to him so he could hurt me more & more with his words 1day is yes things will get better the next is i dont want 2 have nothing 2 do w/u!

2006-10-16 06:52:03 · 7 answers · asked by why 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This man is a highly educated person that lived out of the country for the last three years. He has returned and is looking for employment. He seemed to have achieved a lot but I still want to check on his activities before leaving the country (USA). there are many background check agencies online but not sure of any. Help. Don't want to put the cart before the horse

2006-10-16 06:51:54 · 10 answers · asked by getitright-now 1 in Singles & Dating

I love how this guy, that I knew for 5 years (was good friends with too), and dated for 4 months..decides that because I want to just stay friends, and nothing more (mind you this guy said he had no personal life(so why have a gf!?!) ) says to me that just because HE is making something of himself-shouldnt mean that we need to break up.I broke up with him, not only because we NEVER spend any time together any more since hes soooo busy (or so he says-but yet has time to go bowling with all his other friends) but because I needed time to figure out what I wanted to do with my life..i have stress at home, college, and more...and then no job doesnt help my situation any either....i wanted time to think about what I should do..and i didnt really want to tie him down with all that...even though we really didnt do anything anyways.My question is..why is he so mad at me? He ended up hanging up on me on the phone..which doesnt help being friends with him any easier!! i DO NOT WISH TO RUIN THAT!

2006-10-16 06:51:00 · 7 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-16 06:50:11 · 8 answers · asked by sfgfan 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i want to receive call's from him, but i don't know who to call to set it up? does anyone know???

2006-10-16 06:49:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Their children know that the parents disagree on what they can or cannot do and act up accordingly.

2006-10-16 06:49:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Hi my birthday is approaching soon, but i always dread it as i feel guilty all the time when i get presents. I dont know why i feel this way but i do, I think its because my birthday is near xmas and i get presents also then and its like i think i dont deserve presents or something, I just feel guilty does anyone elsefeel this way and why ?

2006-10-16 06:48:40 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Why do uniforms turn me on so bad! It can even be an ugly guy..but if he's wearing a uniform..I go crazy!!

2006-10-16 06:48:21 · 16 answers · asked by michellewho11582 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-16 06:48:09 · 4 answers · asked by Trina 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i broke up with my boyfriend because he was very insecure very contolling for no reason at all and he scared me sometimes with threats. But i broke up with him alot of times and i always tried to make things work. we were together for a 1yr and 3 months and we broke up about a month ago. he still calls a hundred times a day
tring to get back together tellin me he miss and he loves me.But i'm starting to get feelings for someone else. I don't want to break no ones heart especially his so should i move on and take a chance or try to make things work with my ex.

2006-10-16 06:47:42 · 7 answers · asked by shay 1 in Singles & Dating

are being intimate, what do you prefer, slow & sensual, hard & fast, passionate, more romantic? I ask because if you've become used to one way, do you find it hard to adjust to someone who likes it a different way? It's all about pleasing each other, right?

2006-10-16 06:47:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was with my ex boyfriend for 6 years. He didn't pay very much attention to me and rarely made time for me (stood me up, forgot birthdays ect). Although we broke up months ago I was still sleeping with him on a regular basis (the one thing we truely got right!)
Then I met this other guy. He really seems to like me and treats me so amazingly! He calls to make sure I got home allright, walks me to my car in the freezing rain, cooks me breakfast, cuddles with me and seriously on and on...it's near embarassing how great this guy treats me.
So I haven't been sleeping witht he ex. He flirts with me, I don't respond but haven't told him I'm with someone else.
Also I can't fathom a future for me and the other guy. He has a history of drug use (no longer), has a dui, works at a bar major tatoos ect ect (my parents would freak out!!! I'm 27 but still...) and I know he likes me and I like him..but I know it can't work.
aghhh I guess me question is what the f@*k am I doing!!!!

2006-10-16 06:46:42 · 8 answers · asked by Marie 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-16 06:46:32 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

boobs use them to get what you want? If so how do you use them? Same could apply for woman with sexy legs. Do you use your legs to get what you want? If so how?

2006-10-16 06:45:43 · 12 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

when you ask a question and people are nasty or say they are glad you did something and hope you get punished for it.

Or they are really patronising - there isnt any need for it and frankly if that is how you are going to be rather than helpful i dont want to hear from you

2006-10-16 06:45:28 · 54 answers · asked by Scottish Fee 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My wife and I have differing views on how to construct a peanut butter and jelly sandwhich. So we want to take a survey. When making the sandwhich, after you have put the peanut butter on one of the slices of bread, do you put the jelly on top of the peanut butter or do you put the jelly on the other slice?

Your input will be much appreciated!

2006-10-16 06:44:57 · 18 answers · asked by lightbringer1979 2 in Marriage & Divorce

advice

2006-10-16 06:44:17 · 10 answers · asked by m and m 1 in Family

Or messed up?

He's really sweet and my family likes him and most people cant tell that we're like so many years apart

help?

2006-10-16 06:44:12 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why dont these 40-50 year old men hit and flirt, and ask out on a date these 11-15 year old girls in a public place or in front of there parents?

2006-10-16 06:44:06 · 17 answers · asked by www.infowars.com 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife and I have deffering views on how to construct a peanut butter and jelly sandwhich. So we want to take a survey. When making the sandwhich, after you have put the peanut butter on one of the slices of bread, do you put the jelly on top of the peanut butter or do you put the jelly on the other slice?

Your input will be much appreciated!

2006-10-16 06:43:57 · 14 answers · asked by lightbringer1979 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-16 06:43:54 · 10 answers · asked by babylissy01 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-16 06:43:01 · 12 answers · asked by auttum_rain 1 in Family

I have a half brother that my parents gave up well before I was born. I wonder if he ever looks for us and what he is like.

2006-10-16 06:42:54 · 5 answers · asked by nikkawho 1 in Family