I was with my ex boyfriend for 6 years. He didn't pay very much attention to me and rarely made time for me (stood me up, forgot birthdays ect). Although we broke up months ago I was still sleeping with him on a regular basis (the one thing we truely got right!)
Then I met this other guy. He really seems to like me and treats me so amazingly! He calls to make sure I got home allright, walks me to my car in the freezing rain, cooks me breakfast, cuddles with me and seriously on and on...it's near embarassing how great this guy treats me.
So I haven't been sleeping witht he ex. He flirts with me, I don't respond but haven't told him I'm with someone else.
Also I can't fathom a future for me and the other guy. He has a history of drug use (no longer), has a dui, works at a bar major tatoos ect ect (my parents would freak out!!! I'm 27 but still...) and I know he likes me and I like him..but I know it can't work.
aghhh I guess me question is what the f@*k am I doing!!!!
2006-10-16 06:46:42 · 8 answers · asked by Marie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The new guy or the ex, which one is the one with the DUI, the drug use history?
2006-10-16 06:50:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess we never like the good boys... bad boys are so much more fun, but they're never going to change.... let say he is older than you it took him all those years to be the *** that he is he is not going to change for you if he didn't before!
Try this nice guy out because if he finds out about the other one he isn't going to stick around and some other girl is going to get him and live a good life...
2006-10-16 06:53:02 · answer #2 · answered by DEE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't know, no one else can either. Take a week or two to yourself, go somewhere different and reflect on what You want. You're the one living your life, and no one has the right to tell you any different.
2006-10-16 06:50:34 · answer #3 · answered by ron k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the problem here!? Ignore Jerk #1 and be respectful and continue a relationship with Prince Charming. Just stay away from the jerk and all will be well.
2006-10-16 06:49:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't look in the long term right now, just be with the guy that makes you feel the best about yourself.
2006-10-16 06:50:41 · answer #5 · answered by rilindy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What makes you so sure it can't work? Even with the tats he sounds like a nice guy. (as long as he stays clean)
2006-10-16 07:00:29 · answer #6 · answered by Sunspot Baby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you broke up with the first guy, but still sleeping with him ???
you know it cant work with the second guy but still with him ??
you need to put your self together and know exactly what you are and where you stand.
2006-10-16 06:51:33 · answer #7 · answered by maherkiss 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u love then nothing can stop it from working
2006-10-16 06:49:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋