I love how this guy, that I knew for 5 years (was good friends with too), and dated for 4 months..decides that because I want to just stay friends, and nothing more (mind you this guy said he had no personal life(so why have a gf!?!) ) says to me that just because HE is making something of himself-shouldnt mean that we need to break up.I broke up with him, not only because we NEVER spend any time together any more since hes soooo busy (or so he says-but yet has time to go bowling with all his other friends) but because I needed time to figure out what I wanted to do with my life..i have stress at home, college, and more...and then no job doesnt help my situation any either....i wanted time to think about what I should do..and i didnt really want to tie him down with all that...even though we really didnt do anything anyways.My question is..why is he so mad at me? He ended up hanging up on me on the phone..which doesnt help being friends with him any easier!! i DO NOT WISH TO RUIN THAT!
2006-10-16 06:51:00 · 7 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dont want to ruin a good 6 yr.friendship over something like this..i didnt want to hurt him! Thats the last thing i wanted to do.....
And when we were talking on the phone he says to me "its not all about you! I want to be more than friends- which you dont seem to understand"
I do understand!! I just cant do that as of right now!!!
Please help me...
2006-10-16 06:53:18 · update #1
he sounds kinda selfish to me. drop him and find ya a new squeeze!
2006-10-16 06:54:36 · answer #1 · answered by pitbulldawgz82 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok - he wants more and you can't give it and broke up with him - seems like an impass to me.
Why are you assuming that just because you want to be friends he does too? Maybe he's not all that interested in being friends with an ex.
2006-10-16 06:59:25 · answer #2 · answered by Brainiac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-13 09:21:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How big a HINT you need.
He's cold to you.
He sent you the dead fish.
2006-10-16 06:53:59 · answer #4 · answered by cork 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll be your boyfriend, I'll spend LOTS of time with you, sweetheart.
2006-10-16 06:53:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
we dont know anything about him so how could we know why he is mad?
2006-10-16 06:53:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
then don't
2006-10-16 06:53:33 · answer #7 · answered by brunette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋