are being intimate, what do you prefer, slow & sensual, hard & fast, passionate, more romantic? I ask because if you've become used to one way, do you find it hard to adjust to someone who likes it a different way? It's all about pleasing each other, right?
2006-10-16 06:47:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I love it rough and hard ... the other night he wanted soft and slow ... took me a minute to adjust ... but nothing out of the norm ... variety is the spice of life ... !
2006-10-16 06:56:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is about pleasing eachother as well as yourself. When it's a question of preference, it all depends on the mood, the setting, the level of passion; let those factors dictate the "type" of sex. There are times when all of your above mentioned levels are appropriate. If you've become used to a certain type of sex, lack of spontanaieity can affect your relationship with your partner. When finding someone who "likes it a different way", adjusting and becoming comfortable with someone new takes time, but mostly communication for gratification.
2006-10-16 06:55:50 · answer #2 · answered by coolguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it depends on the mood. If you are with a person, and you are in love and are in one of the.. "i love you so much" moods, then there is going to be intimacy, and a lot of kissing, which i love, but, if you are horny, then you're going to want it hard and fast. which can be just as good as well. and it is about pleasing each other, if it doesnt feel good for you, then whats the point? and change is always fun, so if they like it a certian way, then change it up a bit, they may find it interesting
2006-10-16 06:55:50 · answer #3 · answered by April Lynn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on why you are being intimate.
There are times when I need it.. NOW!!! and hard and fast is the answer!!!
There are time when i want to be seduced so slow & sensual is the ticket.
Its all about the moment and what you are in.. not what you ALWAYS do.
I HOPE that i will always react to the moment and not what I always do.. once you start doing that.. then its just the motions and you are no longer involved.
2006-10-16 06:50:52 · answer #4 · answered by .... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what mood I am in. On a wedding night of course romantic, but I like to switch it around. Variety is the spice of life you know...
2006-10-16 06:49:57 · answer #5 · answered by Clints_wench 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the mood I am in. The key is to find someone who sense what your mood is and then delivers.
2006-10-16 06:49:16 · answer #6 · answered by Jewells 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
depends on the night...if you have had a couple of drinks, then fast and playing around is fun..just you two sitting around watching a movie then it maybe a time for romance..so it just depends
2006-10-16 06:50:10 · answer #7 · answered by miataraceman 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i like slow and sensual and slower and more sensual-lol. i can adapt to different styles.
2006-10-16 06:56:04 · answer #8 · answered by sinned 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
right 2 points, personal preferance, no real way to tell unless you talk about it... its really easy to start one way and change midway
2006-10-16 06:49:26 · answer #9 · answered by J from O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the mood.
2006-10-16 06:49:10 · answer #10 · answered by tractor girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋