Ok so I got dumped last saturday and its been a week since we talked so I figured he was done with me. Well yesterday he sent me 5 text messages and all about what I was doing any plans
and all. Then last nite he calls me and talks about everything says he's been doing alot of thinking and soul searching. When we're talking he's acting like everything is fine and we're on great terms.
Whats up??
2006-10-16 05:28:43 · 16 answers · asked by Blondie<3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He wants the perks of having a girlfriend without the commitment. Don't fall for it...
2006-10-16 05:30:07 · answer #1 · answered by shae 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My guess-the girl he left you for dumped him. I'd put distance between myself and that guy. There's probably plenty you are not aware of--and you wants to be made 'sport of'. Maybe he did you a favor by dumping you. Personally, I'd pretend I met someone so far out of my league and was thrilled by the interest that person was showing me...so of course you have plans for now until forever. It's also possible he's trying to do the 'friends thing' which is cool as long as you're on board with that.
2006-10-16 12:33:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may feel he made a mistake and is trying to make it up to you and try to get back together with you. So, if you want to give him another chance, but let him know that this time, he better act right because you can move on and live with out him!
2006-10-16 12:31:04 · answer #3 · answered by thealysiad 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is a game that guys play..he dumped you maybe because he wasn't ready for anything serious, or maybe he likes someone else, or maybe he just want to keep you as a sex buddy. only these guys know exactly what they are doing but it also up to you if you want to put up with the games..I say do you, make him see that you have moved on and that you are way beyond him..what ever you decide dont let him conrtol because that is exactly what it is.
2006-10-16 12:43:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe the guy is regreting dumping you. He might be checking up on you to see if your moving on or not. He might also still care about you.
2006-10-16 12:30:46 · answer #5 · answered by candy12424 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he wanted to go out and be a free man to go partying maybe a one-nighter. Don't do it if you care for yourself, seriously. You don't need that crap going on. Move on to someone who deserves you.
2006-10-16 12:30:53 · answer #6 · answered by Juleette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm welll if you two where physically intimate.. chances are he was wanting to hit it again since he hasn't had any since the last time you two were together.
Or.. he chould just be a dumb boy who doesn't know how to say "I'm sorry, can we try again" ... on of the two.
2006-10-16 12:31:04 · answer #7 · answered by .... 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes, men, are very difficult in this loosing matter. We will do anything to get back wich is ours! If we love them!
2006-10-16 12:32:59 · answer #8 · answered by Jerdy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with shae 100% . Enough said.
2006-10-16 12:32:22 · answer #9 · answered by yellow_ghoul 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even if u and him broke up i think h'es still trying to be friends with you! Allow him to be a friend!
2006-10-16 12:30:52 · answer #10 · answered by saiyuki c 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋