me and my girlfriend been together for 2 1/2 years , and we have a son together. we broke up and she is living with her brother, we broke up because she was talking to other guys without telling and she would hide, and got back together. Now she gets upset because i go out with my friends, i do spend time with her, now wat can i do?
2006-10-16 05:29:04 · 7 answers · asked by savage_linx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
the question is who do you spend the most time with? if she gets the majority of your time then you just need to talk to her and let her know that being around each other all the time doesn't give you a chance to miss each other the you both may began to argue and not want to be around each other. the saying goes.... the further apart you are the fonder your heart gets meaning if you give each other enough room and time to miss each other you will be better off in your relationship and things won't get boring. take it from someone who has been there that's why i have had a 9year relationships and will be married in 2 months and the fire is still there and he has been out of town chilling with guy Friends and friend girls. the thing is trust.
2006-10-16 05:48:12 · answer #1 · answered by O.E.S. Lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is the problem when you start having a family without making a committment to each other. You are both now parents, not singles living separetly. If you are a couple then you do not have to say that you do spend time with her. You need to spend time as a family along with the child.
However some couples need their time apart from their partners, and that is when they go out with friends. Some people are ok with that, some are not. I have been with my husband for 13rys, and at first he spent time with friends, but it has been years that he does. However I don't get mad if he goes to his friends house for lets say Fantasy Football, etc. But this is something that happenes maybe 3 times a year! I on the other hand, do not go out anywhere without my family. However I have on a few occations gone out to buy a present, etc, so I do go with a friend. You just have to find out the point where you both can agree on how much to spend time away from each other.
2006-10-16 12:34:40 · answer #2 · answered by gjmite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing..If you are still with her which i don't understand from the question, but if you are she is probably scared you are going to do to her what she did to you. If you guys aren't together she's probably jealous you moved on with your life. As long as you make time for your son it shouldn't matter; whether you are with her or not. Everyone needs friends outside of a relationship. Enjoy yourself there is nothing wrong with that.
2006-10-16 12:35:00 · answer #3 · answered by Meda1nonly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, maybe you should spend a little more time with her!! If you have a child together, you both should be thinking about the welfare of your kid and not the silly eccentricities of your relationship. If you want her back, just be a man & say your sorry.
2006-10-16 12:32:28 · answer #4 · answered by redirishactress 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she sounds a little insecure, maybe include her and have her bring a friend as well.
2006-10-16 12:32:39 · answer #5 · answered by cruisingalong 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she sounds very immature.
2006-10-16 12:43:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing you can do. she is insecure and jealous.
2006-10-16 12:32:35 · answer #7 · answered by evilprincess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋