I will just let you read the e-mail:
Dear Trisha,
I am going to confess to a lot of things on this letter that I may not want to but I think you should know the truth about.
The whole story about renee and cheating on me was not a complete lie. It really did happen but like a year ago and I am still pissed about it. I don't know why I even liedto you about that to you.
The whole thing about me thinking your a slut and a lier was me pissed at you and writing something that now I will always regert from now on. I was reading through your profile and I was connecting things in my head about you and a guy named Alex on your profile. Sat. at your work I asked you about luch on Monday and you said that you would email me about it. then on Sunday you asked alex what he was doing for Monday and then you email me 15 min. later saying that you are starting a diet today so you would let me know about the luch thing. I wrote back saying that some plannes have just arissen a
2006-10-16 05:32:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and we should cancle the lunch. I wrote that because of the whole Alex thing and I am still kicking my self in the *** for that. I wish I could unsend those messages and ask you about these things but it was me just mad making stupid desions.
Until reccently I have always thought of you as a friend, and then one day I look over at you wanting more then just friends like a girlfriend or something so then I start telling you what I think about you, then I asked you about a boyfriend and you said you were sorta talking to someone. My whole profile about "If she only knew how I felt about her" was you.
Now the whole friendship thing. I am not sure that we can be friends because I will always have feeling towards you that I don't think I can change. I would love to be friends but me feeling the way I do towards you might interfear with our friendship.
Those comments I made about you being the best girl I have ever seen or those other kind comments are all true.
2006-10-16 05:33:47 · update #1
Then She writes Back:
well maybe u dont know me very well but alex is my bestfriend i tell him everything. and he know what i go through. and yes i did start my diet today cuz what u see i dont see when i look at myself but u know i dont have to explane myself bc im done. and yeah i am talkin to a guy and oh well thats my decision not urs but ill never talk to u again u messed that 1 up for ue self
2006-10-16 05:36:17 · update #2
Well, well, well... the classic "more than friends" situation. To be honest, she sounds like a real a$$hole. I mean you pour out your heart to her and she dumps you like a sack of rotten potatoes. You shouldn't have jumped to conclusions, but you did and it can't be changed. I think she was looking for an excuse to ignore you, it's just how some girls are. O'yea... and if this Alex is NOT gay- then you should probably expect them to be "friends with benefits"... that means they probably screw arouond with eachother. I'm sorry to be so honest... but it's the truth. The way she wrote you back made her sound immature and immature girls always love to lead guys on. Believe me... I am 100% sure of this. All I can tell you is that you should move on and stay away from her for a while... go meet some new friends or just hang out with your buddies for a while. You'll recover... and I hope you find a good girl that deserves you!
2006-10-16 05:45:52 · answer #1 · answered by JoHanna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lucy, you have some 'splaining to do! Have a nice Innocent lunch or coffee and explain in person, you might want to grovel a bit, so bring knee pads. Doing the right thing sucks sometimes, but when you are this bothered about a bad you did, it's pretty much the best way ti find inner peace and settle yourself. Go in with no expectations other than making it right between you. Good luck!
2006-10-16 05:39:11 · answer #2 · answered by ron k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that was a lot to read. So, I came to the conclusion that the two of you should probably SPEAK to each other. I won't comment on your spelling, but it can't be helping the situation. She seems a little immature to write you off that quickly though, especially since you worked to hard to explain yourself. I think you should try talking to her and if that doesn't work you need to move on to a healthier relationship.
2006-10-16 05:40:18 · answer #3 · answered by Arte Salon 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She obviously doesn't care about what you had to say.....so find a girl that will. Move on and let it go. The more you think about her the more depressed your going to be. Hang out with your guy friends and get layed...Hhahahaha!!
2006-10-16 05:47:00 · answer #4 · answered by Amber R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find someone else. It's making you feel upset then move on.
2006-10-16 05:39:16 · answer #5 · answered by Juleette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this will be hard but you need to move on and find someone new.
2006-10-16 05:44:09 · answer #6 · answered by TroubleRose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your psycho buddy. You didnt get the hint when she told you she was thinking about another guy?
2006-10-16 05:38:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
move on
2006-10-16 05:39:32 · answer #8 · answered by slaphappy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude get a life
2006-10-16 05:35:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not worth your time. move on
2006-10-16 05:38:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋