We've been dating 3 months now and he says he wants to be with me forever...
2006-10-16 05:41:46 · 29 answers · asked by landime9 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He already has multiple pics of me...that's how I found out. I wanted to see the ones of me...
2006-10-16 07:04:44 · update #1
hmm.. trouble in paradise... tell him you found them by accident, tell him it makes you feel uncomfortable, ask him to delete them in front of you, so he can't store them somewhere on his computer for later viewing and then delete them. find out how recent they are, ask him why he keeps them. let him do most of the talking and judge his reactions and behaviour to see how loyal he is to you and your feelings. try to control your emotions so you can judge his responses properly.
2006-10-16 05:47:09 · answer #1 · answered by lulu 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's wrong. If he has a girlfriend that he truly loves and is happy with, then why would he go look at naked files of his ex-girlfriends? Does this guy really love you? I say that you don't deserve to be with someone who doesn't think you're enough for him. And there's no way you can bring it up without either a) mentioning that his friend told you, or b) making it look like you were snooping. I don't think you should mention that his friend told you, because that will just make extra drama with his friend, and doesn't solve the problem. I mean, maybe you can make up a story of how you randomly came across the files, even though you weren't looking through his stuff, but I don't know how well that's gonna work. Just think it through with yourself and how much this relationship matters to you and get your priorities straight over what you care about the most.
2016-05-22 06:31:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay did you see the part where you said ex girlfriends?? that means more than one, so basically he cant say oh i forgot they were there.....That is a clear cut case of infidelity. If he was with you as much as he says he wants to be then he wouldnt have the pictures- he wouldnt need them cos he has you. Sounds like you need a boyfriend that is honest. Here is a thought....take a photo of you giving him the finger and leave it on there....and dump him he dosent deserve you.
2006-10-16 05:47:41 · answer #3 · answered by naughtiest_nurse_of_em_all 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first it depends on how old they are and if he forgot they were there. I would ask him to delete them. If he won't then I would get out of there, cause that would mean he is still stuck on her. I would have a fit if I found something like that, but I would also want to know if it was an innocent mistake on him part, before I bit his head off. Good luck.
2006-10-16 05:45:36 · answer #4 · answered by la_southern_femme 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He would delete them and not download them into his computer. If he balks at that, I'd say buh bye!!!! If he wants to be with you forever, which is a long time, he doesn't need pics of his ex, naked or not. JMO.
2006-10-16 05:45:37 · answer #5 · answered by Cupcake 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Share them with the world by posting them on the internet. The resulting hatred of these women toward your boyfriend will ensure they will never get back together.
2006-10-16 05:46:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What are the dates on these pictures? If they're recent, then obviously he's cheating! Leave him! If they are from before you were together, then he probably just gets off to them...either way, I'd confront him about it, and ask him what that's all about. If it were me, I'd be pissed!
2006-10-16 05:46:14 · answer #7 · answered by Huliganjetta 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my gosh oh no he didn't girlfriend! Well you should ask him and tell him how you feel about the pictures. if he really loved you he would tell you the truth and get rid of the pictures right away! And if he doesn't then hes not then hes not worth it!
2006-10-16 05:57:59 · answer #8 · answered by wesomarilee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be LIVID!!!!!!!!!!! Why does he still find the need to have them. If he wants to be with you forever then he certainly not showing it! It is very disrespectful to you. PLus thoes girls maybe they are thinking since they are not with him anymor ethat he deleted them...he sounds like apig dump him and get with someone who is not going to be so disrespectful
2006-10-16 05:45:47 · answer #9 · answered by Dark Goddess 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him to get rid of the pics cause hes with you now if he doesnt get rid of them he is obviously not over her i think you should talk to him and let him know that you are not happy about this if he wants to be with you for ever he would get rid of them.
2006-10-16 05:47:17 · answer #10 · answered by baby dust for me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋