My husband works 4 days & off 4 days. I asked for 1 Saturday when he is off for he & my son to help me do the fall clean-up. I wanted help cleaning the house from top to bottom (washing walls, cleaning carpets, etc) plus doing some touch-up painting. I wanted to get this done in October before the holiday & hunting season got here. I never ask for help in the house but since I am also working plus he is the one who smokes (therefore the walls get a little yellow because of it) I didn't think it would be a big deal to take one day a year to help me. How wrong I was! My hubby never helps out - even though I know he has health problems, it seems those problems do not interfer when it comes to hunting or fishing. Plus when he "helps" it is usually working on a 4-wheeler. Am I wrong to ask for help 1 day a year? I cut the grass, take out the trash, trim the trees, do all laundry & housework, cook all the meals, pack his lunch for work each day, etc. Is it asking too much to help me 1 day?
2007-10-01
03:25:25
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