A man at work,who,up until a few days ago,I considered to be a friend.I heard a nasty (screwing coworkers) rumor about him while at lunch with other co-workers one day. I went straight to him about it,just to let him know there was a rumor.. He demanded on knowing who said what, and why, etc. I told him I didn't feel right naming names, and that I just wanted him to beware,as he is in the middle of what may be a nasty divorce..Before you all jump on me,YES- I now realize that I shouldn't have interfered at all, and should have minded my own business.BUT- He went to our Manager(Govt.) and they are trying to say that I am disrupting the workplace.All I meant to do is have a conversation with a friend.I guess he didn't like what I had to say(OR IT REALLY WASN't a RUMOR???) he got defensive and made the complaint. OH yeah...we really used to talk all the time and I considered him as close as my little brother! WHAT can I do now? NO-one is speaking to me. Have I alienated myself for good?
2007-03-11
10:41:19
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