I work as an administrator in a university. The blokes are all married but can't help wondering if they ever fantasise about me when making love to their wives. If I have a great body, cute face..what is the likelihood they do?
I am the youngest there. Im 25.
2007-03-11 09:36:21 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
of course men do fantasise there are lots of beautiful women that are fantastic. 99% of men just let it stay in their minds.tell me though,don`t women fantasise too?i can imagine they do so it`s not all about men!!!!!
2007-03-11 22:39:11 · answer #1 · answered by happy chappy 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I work in a busy office, the guys there are always discussing who's hot , who's not and who's hot to trot.
I guess most married men fantasise now and again - it's human nature. I guess the creepy ones, the ones who letch at you will be fantasising about you, but not necessarily when they're with their wives, if you get what i mean.....
Happy flirting xx
2007-03-11 09:45:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Who cares what you look like?? You are a bit conceited aren't you! Look,after reading the zillions of questions you keep posting (most of them about the married guy you want to screw at work!) it's obvious you don't give a damn about anybody but yourself which is fine if you want to continue having no friends & making your working life difficult as you keep telling us your co-workers don't like you (for this reason by the way!),then go ahead with your scheming.You are obviously obsessed and are looking for some kind of justification for trying it on before he finishes & moves on later this year,you will not get it from most people on here,so what if he fantasises about you whilst making love with his wife, he probably fantasises about other women too but it doesn't mean anything. Just leave the guy alone,how long has this been going on in your head-because your questions about him are dating back 8 months!! Maybe you should devote some of your efforts into keeping your boyfriend happy (i assume you're still with him?).Either way-get a life you self-centred low-life!
2007-03-12 01:43:48 · answer #3 · answered by munki 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You think maybe there wives are better looking than you? If you have a great body and are cute...ah, its possible, but what if they are attracted to slightly older women with meat on the bones...and a curvy figure...then maybe they arn't even noticing you....But, You shouldn't be worried about that at all! Let the men be good little guys and go home to there happy family, Please don't be a homewrecker! Sounds like if your not already, you have the potential to be one! These are obviously either good guys who love there wives or ones that arn't attracted to you....let it be!
2007-03-11 09:59:37 · answer #4 · answered by HushYourFuss 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You work as an administrator in a university.
I did that once too.
Now I go out with one of the (former) lecturers from there! However we started off being friends and after I left carried on being friends until finally we got together. But in my experience most of the academics have their minds in another stratosphere, far away from common sense and the real world.
So, in answer to your question, no, probably not that likely.
2007-03-11 10:10:40 · answer #5 · answered by hevs 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Of course they do. Men fantasize about sex throughout their day. From the way you describe yourself, you may be the subject of more fantasies then others.
I wouldn't take seriously those here who don't like the way you describe yourself. You got a mirror. You're in the best position to judge.
2007-03-11 09:56:47 · answer #6 · answered by jackbutler5555 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Research has indicated that men think about sex almost continually. It is logical to conclude that at least some have thought of you in their daydreams. When making love to their wives, now that is something that is hard to know with certainty.
--That Cheeky Lad
2007-03-11 15:48:03 · answer #7 · answered by Charles-CeeJay_UK_ USA/CheekyLad 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
When one of them actually plucks up the courage to ask you out, you'll know they've been thinking about you! Marriage, or a ring on the finger, never stopped any blokes from straying!
2007-03-11 09:47:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
If your ego matched reality .., no. If your ego didn't match reality.., no.
Not every married man is out on the hunt for a young frilly lass, no matter what women at large think. It happens yes, but the numbers are not as large as you think.
2007-03-11 09:47:20 · answer #9 · answered by Victor ious 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Men and thinking about sex and you are how old and work at a university? Be smart. YES>
2007-03-11 09:43:59 · answer #10 · answered by Denise W 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋