There's this kid who is kind of a bully to my sons (and others) and my kids don't really like him much. However, our families have mutual friends, we have kids in the same grades and we do like the parents so we run into them a lot. The problem is that this kid (age 6) picks on mine (ages 9 & 6) until he makes them mad enough they fight back (sometimes. Sometimes they just try to get away from him).
Well yesterday my 9yr old & him were swimming at my neighbors (I was not there, didn't know the bully was). My son started playfully splashing the other boy and after a sec, didn't say stop, just started swinging at him. My neighbor is the one who called us to fill in the details. She says the other kid did not make contact while swinging, my son says he hit his eye, over his goggles. I tend to believe him. Well, my son got mad, swung back and gave the boy a bloody lip. He doesn't feel bad. Should I force him to apologize? We talked about not hitting but what else can we do?
2006-08-05
03:57:09
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mommaof4
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