had a one night stand with a friend of mine, she is 41 and had a tubal 17 years ago and she was married and had regular sex for 16 yrs after the tubal. We had to much to drink and made out but I did not get off in her. I am worried she could get pregnant but she says I am nuts since she had a tubal 17 years ago and I pulled out. Should I be worried about this 1 time or Should I just get a grip and forget about it. BTW I dont want kids and I am having panic attacks from the worrying, and like I said she is not worried one bit and thinks I am nuts.
2006-08-05 02:26:43 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
If she had her tubes ties she isnt getting pregnant.
2006-08-05 02:31:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
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2016-08-09 10:24:42 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-08-20 23:45:53 · answer #3 · answered by shannonhouse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's only fertile average about a week out of each month (roughly 3 days before ovulation and 3 days after) you are running a greater chance of not knocking her up by not "getting off" in side her and she had a tubal so you shouldn't worry about it your chances are lowered greatly so relax. only other thing i can tell you is keep it rapped up next time.
2006-08-05 02:43:05 · answer #4 · answered by wh1t3b0y_unl34s3d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do not wan t to have children,why don't you have a vasectomy? That way you never need to worry. And no,I don't believe she can get pregnant.
2006-08-05 03:12:20 · answer #5 · answered by mrsreadalot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey sounds like you're and adult. you should be more responsible.Would you go outside naked? no! you would wear a raincoat right, point made! Wearing on might put your mind at ease. if she is fixed i doubt she could get pregnant.
2006-08-05 03:57:48 · answer #6 · answered by chicamexicana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she had a tubal ligation - she cannot get pregnant ...
2006-08-05 02:50:10 · answer #7 · answered by verdes0j0s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are having a panic about it. She will not get pregnant
2006-08-05 02:30:59 · answer #8 · answered by cin_ann_43 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol get a grip and get a rubber
2006-08-05 03:37:05 · answer #9 · answered by cutenwild1769 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry thats why thay do tubals
and if you dont want kids and you not going to cover it up (by wearing condom)
why don't you go get fixed ?
2006-08-05 02:36:25 · answer #10 · answered by hotpinkstef 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋