Parenting - July 2006

I just read a few articles on ODD, if anyone has had personal experience with this disorder, I would love to know about it. I suspect 2 of my son's, but I'm not really happy with the medications that are suggested in treating it. Do I even approach their doctor with the possible diagnosis? Or do I go towards the therapy side of treatment. Any of you with PERSONAL experience please send me a few lines.

2006-07-30 05:10:28 · 4 answers · asked by Feeling Froggy 3

2006-07-30 05:03:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a 14 year old daughter and a 9 year old son. Me and my husband want to have another baby, but our daughter (would be 15 by birth of baby) is going crazy at that thought! She said shes almost ready to have kids and doesnt want to havemore siblings...what should we do? Have the baby or not?

2006-07-30 04:39:44 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband's ex-wife told us that she will no longer let his kids visit us if he and I have a baby. They have joint custody, but due to the fact that we live in North Carolina and she lives in Montana, we don't see them much. Can she do this?

2006-07-30 04:27:38 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

At what age did you start potty training?
How long did it take?

2006-07-30 04:26:32 · 14 answers · asked by Jade 4

My husband and I recently decided that it's time for us to have a baby. He's been married before and has two kids from that marriage ( 13 and 15). His 15 year old daughter went crazy at the mention of us having a baby and threw a massive fit. His ex-wife then called and told him that he and I shouldn't have a child because it's only upsetting his other kids. I'm so mad about this I can't even describe it. How should we deal with this situation?

2006-07-30 04:21:34 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

When my husband brings his kids home this summer (their first visit to our home since our marriage)...how do we make them see that our rules and consequences will differ from thier mom's without sitting them down to a big lecture?

2006-07-30 04:18:33 · 9 answers · asked by Charon 2

My husband and I will have his three kids (8, 12 and 15) for two weeks. His ex-wife is insisting that we send her a detailed itenerary for the time they will be here...she wants everything on a time schedule, restaurants, museums, parks, what we are having for dinner. I think it's silly....what should we tell her?

2006-07-30 04:04:08 · 11 answers · asked by Charon 2

I have a daughter,age 6.She doesn't go to school.There were many times I have left her alone and everything was OK.But I know it's illegal,so some other parents and I decided to alternate with looking after the kids.They are 5,George(4),Dinna(2),Gareth(6),my daughter Linda(6) and Mathew(3).I was at home with them for 3 hours,while the other parents went for a walk.In these 3 hours Mathew fell of the bed and broke his arm.George sprained his ankle,Dinna and Linda hurt their noses.When the kids are alone at home,these things NEVER happen.Maybe I should leave them alone.What do you thing?

2006-07-30 03:47:22 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a 3 yr old, work 5 days a week, and also have a chronic illness. I have tried very hard to balance my life, but still find there simply is not enough time. Does anyone have some good ideas for great things I can do with my child, things I or we can do with others ( I miss having a social life and friends' kids are all much older), and/or just general ways to organize and balance life better??

2006-07-30 03:44:29 · 5 answers · asked by LuLuBelle 4

I'm a mother of 3 girls.I'm not married and their fathers don't help us any way.The oldest is 10(Adeline),the medium is 5(Jane) and the youngest is 6 months(Melanie).I work all day,so Adeline cares of the other while I'm at work.When Adeline is at school(just a few hours) Jane cares of Melanie.Till now there haven't been any problems.I want the kids to become self-confident and to believe in themselves,so they could manage to cope with real life.That's why I let them to take the decisions of their problems and leave them alone at home,to become responsible.If I didn't do it,how could they learn how to cope with life when they grow up and have their children?Anyway I want to ask you are there any other ways to make them more responsible(they are responsible enough,but I want them to have other chances to train their responsibility and confidence).Adeline cooks,cleans the house,cares of the baby and Jane...she knows lots of things and so she learns Jane to do them.Help me with more ideas

2006-07-30 03:19:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I are both in our mid 20's, both college grads, with well paying jobs. We're homeowners, and adopted a puppy a 1yr ago, to take a tiny step towards the ultimate reasponsiblity of having a child. We have been together for 9 years and married 1. Everything is going very well, and we have adjusted to married life quite nicely. I, for some reason, have this overwhelming desire to have a baby now. My husband, however wants to wait a year. He tells me that he is not ready for the resposiblity of a child, he could not even begin to picture himself as a father at this time, and that a child would mess up our lives right now. Although he told me this in pure honesty, I was kind of hurt by this comment. I wonder if his opinion can change that drastically in a year? He has never been around small children, and has no idea what to expect. I don't think he understands the love that they bring to your life. I want him to want a baby, but would never force him to . Any comments?

2006-07-30 01:51:34 · 6 answers · asked by star 1

2006-07-30 00:33:15 · 10 answers · asked by stduncan 1

2006-07-29 23:16:55 · 5 answers · asked by R. F 3

no racist motives. In fact,my family's different colours.

2006-07-29 22:48:39 · 20 answers · asked by momma 2

2006-07-29 21:54:36 · 18 answers · asked by honey-bunny 2

2006-07-29 20:29:36 · 26 answers · asked by laura 2

2006-07-29 20:22:50 · 28 answers · asked by princess_cristee 2

My 5 1/2 year old daughter has been fascinated with all-things medical for about the last 18 months. She swears she wants to be a surgeon and, with her continued interest and knowledge of the subject, I doubt this is a passing fancy.

She's already plowed through the first aid books I have and, enjoys looking at the pics in my copy of Gray's Anatomy. I had the companion workbook, too, but she took that over and actually identified and colored the stuff on the pages.

This part used to bug me some, but the pediatrician said it was okay so long as it didn't scare her--which obviously it does not. My daughter adores the Discovery Health channel, especially anything related to surgery. Between the books and TV, she's learned an awful lot more than the average kid about medical stuff and surgery and wants to know more.

Thing is, for once I'm stumped. She's got a play doctor kit and all that, but what else can we get to help her learn even more?

2006-07-29 19:36:22 · 13 answers · asked by WhyAskWhy 5

I use a Child harness when iam out and about in public places with my 7 yr old he likes it and will ask to wear it. But i what i dont understand is why more people dont use them, there great i know where my son is at all times i know he wont get lost or walk out in front of a car and i can talk to some one or look at something with out having to keep a eye on him. I know some people dont like them but i think my child safety is more important than what other people think. or is it just me..?

2006-07-29 19:04:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-29 18:22:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-29 18:20:53 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

Inspite of the restroom being very clean, well lit, he hates to answer his second call of nature. It is NOT constipation. When he is getting it, he has his own innovative ways to stop it. Only when it is unstoppable, he rushes to the loo. There is NO joking here. Therefore, would sincerely appreciate your valuable tips to solve this issue.

2006-07-29 18:14:28 · 9 answers · asked by Gemini 1

Inspite of the restroom being very clean, well lit, he hates to answer his second call of nature. It is NOT constipation. When he is getting it, he has his own innovative ways to stop it. Only when it is unstoppable, he rushes to the loo. There is NO joking here. Therefore, would sincerely appreciate your valuable tips to solve this issue.

2006-07-29 18:12:56 · 7 answers · asked by Gemini 1

Do you think it is fair for parents to socialy isolate their children? Because my parents are doing this to me and my siblings.

2006-07-29 18:03:30 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well i am a new mom 1st time and my husband works mid-nights so he sleeps all day and works all night...i have tried to ask him to get a day job but he refuses do you think its because he just doesnt want to deal with her... he says its because mid-nights make more money but we arent straped for cash so i dont see the big deal with getting a day job but he sure does...How can i convice him to get a day job?

2006-07-29 17:52:23 · 12 answers · asked by ProudNewMommy 2

im planning a day out with my 2 yr old daughter and 9 month old son. where should i go and what do i need to take with us? will be out from about 9am till about 6pm. help me

2006-07-29 17:43:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am 15 and my father past in march and my girl friend had a baby in june and already this is alot for a kid my age and i need to know what should i tell my daughter about her grandpa when she gets old enought to understand

2006-07-29 17:36:48 · 10 answers · asked by dynomite_kid_21605 1

I stay at home with my 22 month old son, and my mother in law has a problem with it. She is constantly telling me that my son isn't socialized enough and that he needs to be in day care. I do not judge others who have their kids in day care...I worked in one for years. That is the main reason why I do not send him to one. I know some people do not have the choice (including my sister) but why do I get slammed for the decision I have made? I have always wanted to be a mom. I am so sick of defending myself to my mother in law. She just does not get it. My mother stayed home with us kids but she worked and my husband went to day care. I can not tell you the number of times people give me strange looks when I tell them I stay home. Like they feel sorry for me or something. Like I am not liberated and I am barefoot and pregnant at home. I chose to have this lifestyle and feel privileged to be able to be there for my son 24/7. Anyone else with this problem? How do you deal with it?

2006-07-29 17:34:14 · 24 answers · asked by Danielle P 2

2006-07-29 17:17:41 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous