Other - Pregnancy & Parenting - May 2007

My partner and I have been breaking up, and making up. And we left each other a long while, and now we are back together. Everyone says that its meant to be because my partner had moved out of state, and changed the number. But... I'm notsure. All I know is that we are together now, and happier than ever. And in 2 yrs. I'm going to buy this 3 million dollar house and that'll be my gift to myself. I would be a good mother. I just want to hear other people's opinion on this matter though.

2007-05-14 07:36:05 · 12 answers · asked by wonettalovesjacory 1

I'm 10 years old (20 in September) and my boyfriend is 23. We have been together for 3 1/2 years and we are more than boyfriend/girlfriend we are BEST FRIENDS. We have a strong healthy relationship and we are 100% sure that we are soulmates. We have been talking about having children now at a early age so we have time to do the things we want to when we get older. We both have very good jobs and we can afford a child right now. Should we wait until we are older and go ahead and do it now?

We own our own home.
We have 2 cars.
We make $100,000+ each a year
I can take paid maternaty leave (so can he).
We will get married before the baby comes.

Is it a good idea?

2007-05-14 03:30:22 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Someone I know said they were pregnant after the menopause by getting a serge of hormones?(and obviously after sleeping with someone) is this possible?

2007-05-14 00:00:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

if he comes to the birth of his child. In fact, his daughter hates me & because I could care less that she does (I didn't do anything to warrant the hatred), he doesn't want to have anything to do with me. I am heartbroken but feel like I can be a good mom without him & had hoped that we could just concentrate on our child. For the past few months, he's been ignoring all my correspondence & I was told that his name won't be on the birth certificate because we aren't married. I have a strong support system and an older child that's very excited about the birth...however, I can't help but feeling devasted. Should I sue him for child support even though it seems he doesn't want to have anything to do with the child?

Please don't post any rude remarks...I'm having a hard enough time dealing with this situation. Thanks everyone!

2007-05-13 17:55:51 · 22 answers · asked by konshesgirl 2

My 8 year old got me a plant in a cup that he made in class, it also had a photo of him on it. And he wrote a story about his Mama (ME). I cried I was sooo happy. I think its the best Mothers Day gift I ever got. In his story he wrote that I am the best at cleaning the house and having his school uniforms ready. He said that I make the best Chili Cheese Bean dip, and that I have nice teeth LOLOL. What made you happy today?

2007-05-13 07:46:52 · 15 answers · asked by ? 3

I lost my first child when I was five months pregnant. Since then I have had another child and am expecting twins. When people ask me how many children I have, I'm not sure whether to say two and expecting twins, I have one child and expecting twins or should I say I lost a child, have one, and am expecting twins. I'm just not sure how to respond.

2007-05-13 05:22:40 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

how can we do to make our parents happy when they are 70-years-old?

I'm an english learner in Japan, this's our project's topic, can anyone help me with this topic? Thanks a lot..I apperiated.

2007-05-13 04:51:04 · 9 answers · asked by creating_creating 1

My BF is at work. His sister just called to see if we could go to a Mother's Day cookout at their mom's house. Dave is at work... so it would just be me and his son. "Grandma" lets BF's son GET AWAY WITH EVERYTHING. He tries to keep his son away from her because his behavior is HORRIBLE for 2 days after. PLUS, I've only met my BF's mom once, and talked to her a couple or times on phone.
I will feel really bad for not going, after all, it's mother's day! However, if I go, I won't be able to disipline him as I do here. For instance, TIME OUTS. Yeah, that's all. He'll treat me like **** the whole time we're over there (I know this because I KNOW THE KID).
I'm like a mom to his kid, and 6 weeks pregnant w/ #1. Shouldn't I get to participate in Mother's Day? If I go over there, it may be one of the worst days of the year!
I have no idea what to do.

2007-05-13 04:44:53 · 3 answers · asked by Thinking 5

2007-05-12 17:46:36 · 31 answers · asked by tanlaask 3

I'm in a breastfeeding delimma and I haven't even had my baby yet. What I need to know i- What do I do??

My mother has breastfeed every child she has until atleast 2. My youngest sister and baby brother were breastfeed to 4. I was till I was 3. DON'T BE HOMOPHOBIC. I TURNED OUT JUST FINE AND AM SUPER HEALTHY AND NO I CANNOT REMEMBER BREASTFEEDING. If you don't have something nice to say then don't say anything. THANKS.

I'm not going to be that extreme with breasfeeding my child but I do want to breasfeed, I'm pretty sure.

My mother in Law says breastfeeding is not the right thing to do. She says that it's important to bottle feed or pump or use formula because if something happens someone else can feed my baby. I DO NOT WANT ANYONE ELSE FEEDING MY BABY. I want to feed my baby period. I'm not having a babysitter unless for extreme cases of emergency and I am not putting my kid in daycare. That's just how I feel and his family is pro daycare and working mothers.

2007-05-12 16:59:07 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay ladies and gents- here's scenario. i have a three month old and i got my tubes tied. I haven't had a period yet cuz i am breastfeeding. But latley for the past couple of days i have been thinking i could be preggers. Is it possibe?? I am 26 and my hubby is very very very fertile!!! hence the peeing reference. So what do ya'll think? My tummy is getting bigger- bigger than it was 2 mths ago with exercise and good diet.

2007-05-12 16:34:10 · 13 answers · asked by mama of 3 2

2007-05-12 14:31:41 · 8 answers · asked by dream 3

My dad just passed away, and my little brother is two years old. I never had a close relationship with my father, so as sad as it is, It really doesn't bother me much. My brother probably won't remember him, and will have no male role model growing up. So I figured my role in his life is probably going to be bigger than expected. Any advice? I figured I kinda got to be kinda like a dad to him. I'm 16, by the way. Thanks in advance!

2007-05-12 12:24:27 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

im 16 and i have irregular periods, sometimes i last up to 5 months without having my period, i went to the doctor and he gave me some pills so that when ever i miss my period i take the pill the first day of the next month and that will make me get my period for that month

ok so this is my question....

if i have irregular periods is it less likely for me to get pregnat?
dont think bad, im not thinking about having sex yet, i was just wondering.

please answer honestly and if that means that theres a probability that i wont have kids just say it...thats a good sign for me because i dont think i can stand the pain of having a child

thanks for your help!

2007-05-12 11:28:08 · 13 answers · asked by livin*it*to*the*X-TREME 1

last week i came on here and asked if anyone could help!
just to refresh things,

MY QUESTION

My husband had a vasectomy 11 yrs ago, i now look 4-5 months, got loads of symptoms of being pregnant apart from feeling sick, i am even leaking fluid from my left nipple, however i am still having periods.

UR ANSWERS

however a lot of answers came back saying that i had put weight on, i,m not pregnant cos husband has had a vasectomy and that u dont have periods when u r pregnant.

OUTCOME

I went to the drs who sent me for blood tests and a scan, not got the blood test results back yet, but the scan showed i am 20 wks preganant YIPPEE.

SO IT IS POSSIBLE TO GET PREGNANT WHEN HUSBAND HAD A VASECTOMY 11 YRS AGO AND U CAN STILL HAVE PERIODS WHEN PREGNANT,

Baby due in september 2007

2007-05-12 10:05:44 · 7 answers · asked by miracle baby 2

I have been getting migraines frequently. I have always had them, just not this often. I used to be on ortho-lo, then changed to a generic one. I recently got back onto ortho-lo, and my migraines seem to be more frequent. I was wondering if this could be a reason & if anyone else has this problem?

2007-05-11 19:08:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Mother's Day is coming and it's the day to celebrate the greatest person in our lives, moms. They gave us the opportunity to come to this world, they kept us in their belly for 9 months straight and carried all the weight until delivery.

As a mom, what were your thoughts when the doctor told you that you were pregnant? What did your husband do?
...and by the way, happy mother's day - Ò¤↙« Chavo™ »↘¤Ó

2007-05-11 16:38:25 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend is having a baby shower coming up. And she asked me to help her find new, fun and unique baby shower games. So that her guest will have a great time. The shower will be co-ed (Both men and women) will attend. And ideas or suggestions??
Thanks!!!

2007-05-11 12:43:43 · 13 answers · asked by MARI 2

I fell asleep while babysitting these kids...it was like 1 AM, and the kids were asleep too. Is it rude or what? Thanks!

And if you could also leave some tips about babysitting that would be great!

10 points to the person with the best anwser!!!

2007-05-11 08:52:46 · 31 answers · asked by Lindsay 3

Like a t-shirt and jeans or what is appropriate?

And I will give 10 points to the best anwser!!

2007-05-11 08:48:53 · 18 answers · asked by Lindsay 3

We have an 11 month old daughter who turns 1 on the 19th of this month. My wife just missed Mother's Day last year.

2007-05-11 06:59:35 · 12 answers · asked by James R. Reed, II 2

2007-05-11 05:40:28 · 19 answers · asked by brittany2569 2

Does your BBT drop right before or after ovulation?

2007-05-11 05:30:01 · 4 answers · asked by FTB 2

if your man drinks your breastmilk as part of sex and foreplay? (I don't want to do it but read an article online that said its quite common!) What are your thoughts on this? Have you done it/would you do it?

2007-05-11 05:05:07 · 7 answers · asked by jellybean55 3

Well actually, how old were you when you had all your children? I'm 21 and so many of my friends are parents. I want to be a mom but I can't even get a decent boyfriend...I'm just wondering how I compare with everyone else.

2007-05-11 05:00:30 · 32 answers · asked by GoldenGirl 3

2007-05-11 04:38:25 · 4 answers · asked by lickonsumhonee 5

My daughter is getting christened on the 29th July. She'll be 13 months old. I'm having a BBQ party and inviting loads of people over. Any good ideas for homemade outdoor decorations or things like that?? We're 'pushing the boat out' on this lol.

2007-05-11 03:15:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

why do men impregnate women and then leave them to raise the babies by themselves,men are so stupid! if i were to impregnate a women i would have assumed responsibilities,cared for her and loved her...but most of all married her!!!if u feel that this is right\wrong reply soon

2007-05-11 00:53:18 · 16 answers · asked by rockstar_charlton 1

i dont know if i should have an abortion i don't want to regret it but theres so much i wnated to do before i have kids.i was planning on going to college this year.but all that wil change if i keep the baby is life really hard when you are a young mother.my family have littlemoney and theres noway they would be able to support me my boyfriend said he would look after me though but what if it doesnt work out!

2007-05-10 22:44:42 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-10 20:49:24 · 16 answers · asked by Mum of 4, preg with no.5 2