My BF is at work. His sister just called to see if we could go to a Mother's Day cookout at their mom's house. Dave is at work... so it would just be me and his son. "Grandma" lets BF's son GET AWAY WITH EVERYTHING. He tries to keep his son away from her because his behavior is HORRIBLE for 2 days after. PLUS, I've only met my BF's mom once, and talked to her a couple or times on phone.
I will feel really bad for not going, after all, it's mother's day! However, if I go, I won't be able to disipline him as I do here. For instance, TIME OUTS. Yeah, that's all. He'll treat me like **** the whole time we're over there (I know this because I KNOW THE KID).
I'm like a mom to his kid, and 6 weeks pregnant w/ #1. Shouldn't I get to participate in Mother's Day? If I go over there, it may be one of the worst days of the year!
I have no idea what to do.
2007-05-13 04:44:53 · 3 answers · asked by Thinking 5 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Forgot to mention that his's son's REAL mom is not in the picture.
2007-05-13 04:45:14 · update #1
I would love to spend time w/ them, but not if Dave isn't there (if his son is there) . They don't know I'm pregnant anyways!
2007-05-13 04:58:45 · update #2
I wouldn't go...Or u can drop the kid off and tell them u aren't feeling well.Or u have to go see your own mom. Don't feel quilty for not going.Common sence tells u it wouldn't be a good situations for any of u. Good luck
2007-05-13 05:13:02 · answer #1 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go. Its important for his son to spend time with his grandma, and its important for you to have a good realtionship with her, since she will soon be your babies grandma.
2007-05-13 11:48:48 · answer #2 · answered by parental unit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummmmmmmmmmm wow ackward position. i would go because it would give me time to spend with my boyfriends family. well if they are WIERD then i would have to say dont go.
2007-05-13 11:49:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋