"It was meant to be" WHAT? How do you know what was meant to be? When a child dies of cancer (God forbid), you don't tell the parent "it was meant to be". When a teen dies of a drug overdose, you don't say "it was mean to be". Why is this any different?
"At least it was early" - Yes,it would have been worse if it were later,that's true. But that doesn't make the present situation NOT PAINFUL!!!!! And I lost the baby early, but every step of the way,every milestone,I am missing!! It isn't JUST an 8 week fetus that is gone, it's the 12 week girl/boy!!!",the getting bigger, the tummy being gone,the not needing maternity clothes,no kicking,the due date passing with no baby!!!!
"It would have had big problems" - So what you are saying is I should be happy my baby died? I would have loved ANY baby, sick or well. Dying because it was sick is not a comforting thought!!
Yes, I realize they meant well!!!! Just venting!
2007-04-30
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In Luv w/ 2 B, 1 G + 1
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