i got pregnant on thanksgiving day and on christmas eve me and my childs father stopped talking because i found out he had another girlfriend that he had just started dating 2 days before that.when i got it official that i was pregnant i told him.but then after that we started spending the nights together and having sex up until 2 months ago.this is because he didnt break up with her and i was tired. plus he gave me chalymedia and he stopped talking to me for about 2 weeks because i told his girlfriend that we had been sleeping together throughout their whole relationship and i was just tired of it.she didnt break it off with him and they are still together.now he wants me and her to be friends and i just dont wanna do that because she called me a ***** yelled at me on the phone and then when i told her off he got mad at me and told me that i shouldnt have done that.i really love him.but i dont wanna have to call her phone to get in touch with him.we never spend time.when will this end
2007-04-30 09:36:09 · 4 answers · asked by Jamie G 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Wouldn't it be better to find a nice boy who will treat you with respect and loyalty? You have to have a heart-to-heart talk with him and make some final decisions and move on. Otherwise this pain will go on forever. If he doesn't make you some promises, then you are best to end it. Honestly, you should have done this before now.
2007-04-30 09:45:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do not waste any more energy on this guy. You and his girlfriend don't have to be friend, you and him don't have to be friends. His job now is to help you raise the child. All business baby. You job is not stressing out and making yourself sick. Do not call him. You are setting yourself up. When the child is born, take care of your business. This guy is a clown and you can do better. Good luck. Been through it, but no girl clowned me. I did not put myself in that position.
2007-05-01 11:32:24 · answer #2 · answered by tracy h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wake up! you dont have a relationship with this man.he has used you and its over.if you think he will get back together with you just because there is a baby you are crazy! and his girlfriend is not going anywhere.he gave you a std while you were pregnant you need to be more concerned about that! get used to being alone if you are not willing or able to care for this baby without him give it up for adoption cause hes not coming back to play daddy! good luck.
2007-04-30 16:50:19 · answer #3 · answered by dixie58 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it wont.... your baby does not need to be around that .... Iwould just stay as far away as possible.. dont be stupid!!!
2007-04-30 16:40:42 · answer #4 · answered by Mommy of 2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋