i really need advice and please people dont be rude because you cant judge a person so please be nice we all do mistakes. i have a b.f. and i really love him and slept with him and he came inside of me so when he left home my ex came i dont know why and were really good friends but i guess something happened and we had unprotected sex and he camed in me.... its the biggest mistake ive done and i accept it now my questions is if i get preganant who would the father be? and my other question is can a disease be inside of me i know both of them are very clean because i went with them to check themselves and their clean.. please i need advice dont be rude.
thank you
2007-04-27 09:46:45 · 11 answers · asked by machis312 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
i would go to planned parent hood and get checked out. Also ask for plan b so you WONT be pregnant. then you wont have to worry about WHO the dad is.
2007-04-27 09:50:34 · answer #1 · answered by ~Mom2A&G~+1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...umm, if you do happen to be pregnant then there is no telling who the father is. Once you get further along i think around 4 or 5 months they can do an amniocentesis and they can do a dna test...but they aren't totally and completely accurate. I am in the same situation...i had a period and was dating someone and we broke up and a couple of weeks later i got back with an ex boyfriend and a month later i hadn't gotten my period again and i found out i was pregnant. I had unprotected sex with both of them and even though the sex happened a couple of weeks apart there is no way to pin-point the exact day that i got pregnant so i am now awaiting the baby's arrival to find out who the father is. And to answer your other question yes you could have some type of STD. If you have unprotected sex then there is always that chance. You should be tested...even if your partners have been tested and are clean they may be carriers for a disease and just passing it on...they may not be infected themselves. My advice to you is get tested and if your not ready to be a mother...quit having unprotected sex...if you were to be pregnant would either of those guys be there for you to help you raise the child or support you financially?? Think about that before you climb into bed again...not meanin to be rude...but i wish i woulda had someone make me think before i ended up in the situation that I am in...
2007-04-27 10:02:32 · answer #2 · answered by Emily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because both of them look clean doesn't mean anything. HIV has no name remember that. What you should do is make a obgyn appointment. They can check you for all dieases. In my opinion, the free clincs don't do as good as a job as a non free clinic. As far as been pregrant you can get a test from the store like walmart just wait until your first miss period. Or if you do go to the doctor, the can draw blood and tell you right then even before the miss period good luck
2007-04-27 10:01:55 · answer #3 · answered by mistake 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should wait before worrying. And of course remember this scary feeling so something like this doesn't happen again. If it turns out you are pregnant... take it one day at a time. There will be no way to tell who the father is without a paternity test. If that time comes... be honest!
2007-04-27 09:56:40 · answer #4 · answered by Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way that i see to figure out whom the father would be if you are pregnant is to have a blood test done on the child and both men and figure out who is going to pay for it or all come to an agreement-financially.Also, i would recommend you go to the doctor to have an std performed.Next time,please use a condom, or the morning after pill.
2007-04-27 09:56:05 · answer #5 · answered by Sharee R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am no one to judge, only you have to live with your actions. If you are pregnant the only way to truly know who the father is, is if you get a paternity test.Unfortunately for you that would require you to tell both of these men that you slept with them the same night. Good luck. I will pray for you
2007-04-27 09:55:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hope you won't get pregnant but if you do then they will need to do a paternity test. there is no other way you would know now because you had sex with both of them the same day. o what if you have twins and both of them become a dad. that's possible sometimes.
2007-04-27 09:52:55 · answer #7 · answered by nounou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you get pregnant i am affraid ur going 2 have 2 tell ur b/f coz him and ur ex will have to be tested wen the babys born to find out who is the dad I am not judging u but if u end up in this situation again try thinking before u act plz
2007-04-27 09:51:24 · answer #8 · answered by tracymcd2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to start using condoms. go get tested for stds. you never truly know if someone is clean. as far as pregnancy if you late take a test and once the baby is born you will have to do a dna test to determine who the father is
2007-04-27 09:50:54 · answer #9 · answered by kleighs mommy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, the only way to answer that question is a paternity test. Which means you'll have to tell both of them, you know.
2007-04-27 09:50:10 · answer #10 · answered by Trisha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋