I'm 15 and I lost my virginity....?

Question

I lost my virginity...And I'm not planning on telling my mom.
We didn't use a condom so I don't know what kind of creatures could be popping out of me in 9 months..
And I don't know if I have any STDs now or anything.
But I can't tell my mom or she would kick me out.
And I don't trust those $7 pregnancy tests that you can get at walmart or anything like that...

What should I do?

Answer 1

1) Overcome your distrust of those $7 pregnancy tests or go to your county health clinic.

2) Get tested for STDs, most STDs can be cured, particularly if caught early.

3) Stop having unprotected sex.

Answer 2

I lost my virginity at 15 too,but I knew I was gonna be with him for the rest of my life..it's been 7 years so far.I also used a condom.Don't be stupid and think "it wont happen to me"And also when I got pregnant last year I bought a four dollar pregnancy test from walmart and it came positive..I now have a one year old son.There are "planned pregnancy"offices everywhere where you can go get on birth control for free.they wont tell your parents.they wont call you at home.and they give you a pap smear,which you need,to see if you have contracted an std and just to make sure everything down there is ok.They do ask if you can donate anything which you should do what you can.also the Nuva ring is a great form of birth control.you wont have pills to worry about forgeting to take one or your mom finding them.you just insert it the last day of your period and take it out the first day of your next one.So you change it once a month.just go back to the clinic every month for a new one and donate 5-10 bucks.I hope i helped

Answer 3

First of all have FAITH in your mother!! You are probably just THINKING that she will kick you out!! She may be VERY MAD at you.. but I doubt that she would actually kick you out!!

Secondly.. you dont HAVE to tell your mom at this point!! You made a mistake and you are sorry (and unless you are planning on CONTINUING to have sex) and I would just leave it at that!!

As far as the pregnancy tests that you can buy at the store. they are usually VERY accurate so if you miss your period, go to the store and buy one (or have a friend buy one for you) and take it. Make sure that you take it in the MORNING when you pee for the FIRST TIME of the day. That is when the hormones that show pregnancy are the MOST likely to show up!

If you ARE in fact pregnant then there are A LOT of "planned parenthood" places that you can turn too for help (even underage) and they can direct you into what you should do next. You can find them by simply looking in the phone book!!

Answer 4

You sound confused and scared. Is there a trusted person, an adult you can trust?
Don't be scared, you will be okay no matter what comes of this. Wait until your scheduled cycle and if you are late, go to a store and buy a test. They are very reliable. If it should come out positive, look in your phone book for a family clinic. Give them a call and schedule an appointment with a counselor. There are many, many, choices for you. There are trained people who will help you through this and it will be okay.
Remember, you have a lot of options and don't need to be scared. You have a lot of life to live and this is just one chapter in a very long story.
Good luck to you!

Answer 5

im kind of in the same boat your in im 15 and i might be pregnant too.but i lost my virginity when i was 14. i ended up telling my mom i wasnt a virgin and she didnt flip she was actually happy i told her..she took me to the docters to make sure i didnt have any disease and got me on birth controll.( i stopped taking it though) i think you should just tell your mom she will understand about the virginity thingg. about the pregnant thing you really need to take a test i kno u dont trust them but it will do u some good but you should wait till your missed period.dont worr about the pregnancy thing till you start having symptoms: boobs sore, arola darken, mood swings, head aches, morning sickness and fatigue. no matter what if your pregnant your moms gonna have to know...
my moms threatning to kik me out if im pregnant too and im scared..you can also go to a planned parenthood clinic they will help you for sure. best of luck [ :

Answer 6

All you can do is wait & see!! And by the way...if you are pregnant, those Wal-Mart ($7 tests) will work...believe me!! If you have enough HcG in you system you don't need to worry about it not showing up!! Just wait till you are supposed to have your period and if it doesn't come, wait another 5-6 days then start panicking and go get a test!!! I hope you aren't pregnant, though!! Next time though, just use protection...or better yet, DON'T do it again till your are married!!!

Answer 7

The best thing for you to do would be to tell your mother. She may be upset, but she is your mom and will do anything to help you. But if you don't want to do that, go to planned parenthood, they also help out alot and can help give you the proper attention that you need. For the future, PLEASE be safe and use a condom. oh yes, don't pay any attention to the others who are judging you for what you did. They've made mistakes before as well. So keep your chin up!

Answer 8

u should stay calm and wait until its time for ur period. u can go to planned parenthood and find out about the std's. it is confidential. My advise would be let that be the only mistake if u are not pregant don't have sex right now and at least not unprotected.

Answer 9

Those pregnancy tests are accurate so you better spend the $7. You made a big mistake and may have to pay for it dearly.

Answer 10

those pregnancy tests are accurate. take a test and see if you're pregnant, and go to planned parenthood to get checked out for STDs. And do use a condom.
if you are going to have sex, at least be responsible about it.