OK heres the deal. I have a 12 year old daughter who is the light of my life(besdies when she is a brat LOL).. I was with dad for 4 years found out I was prego at 17, dad was 23, decided he was not ready to be a dad,took him to court when she was 2 for child support, he took me to court for full custody, We agreed on joint custody & other stuff, Everything was great he had her every other weekend called every week to see how things were going with her etc.Well about 2 years ago when she was 10 he decided he did not want to be a dad again, Just stopped coming to get her, calling etc. Popped up on her 11th b-day gave her 15 dollars said he was sorry he was going thru some things had her in tears.Last time his family saw her was x-mas 2005 as well. Well her 11th bday was the last time she seen him or heard from him, She blames herself for him not being in her life,We have tried explaing that she did nothing wrong that it is all him.I know this is killing her & I cant do anything to take away the pain.He is telling everyone that we know jointly that I am not allowing him to see her,even though I tell them he has a court order all he has to do is bring the cops including his family,Who tells me he has tried calling & that Catlyn should call them,HELLO she is 12 not her job to call you.Anyway She is having some medical problems & I need his history I e-mailed him & asked for them he said there was none & asked what was wrong I told him it was none of his business. Was I wrong in doing this ?& More importantly What can I do to help my daughter thru this ?
2007-05-04
11:31:18
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