I've been dating this girl for many, many years, and although we are comfortable with each other in every possible way, I can't see an approach to tell her she's putting on weight. At her perfect form, 140lbs, she is perfectly curvy. But now, she's developed a "spare tire" around her midsection. Although I still find her sexy, I know deep down she's incredibly unhappy with it. She had back surgery a year ago, and the doctor told her to keep the weight off to aid in the healing.
We eat healthy and lo-cal, but I find her eating later at night or larger portions, and her activity has dropped. I offer her to come and work out with me, but with her working on her Doctorate, she always uses that as an excuse not to do anything.
I know this is a very taboo area with girls, and I'm afraid if I say something, she'll see it as an attack, or that I don't find her sexy anymore, which is what I don't want.
Please, any advice on how to approach this matter?
2007-06-20
02:47:16
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jekieu
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Diet & Fitness