Weddings - November 2007

I'm getting married in a few years and I am choosing to walk down alone, I dont want the father daughter dance at the reception, but what if my fiance wants to dance with his mom? Do you think that's disrespectful to my father? I'm confused, I dont want to offend my dad, but I'm not close to him so i dont want to be walked down the aisle nor do I want to dance with him. Help!

2007-11-20 12:53:34 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-20 12:49:36 · 14 answers · asked by pinkeye19822004 2

My mom's husband says no...

2007-11-20 12:22:40 · 11 answers · asked by pinkeye19822004 2

Tomorrow I am getting married, and it's exiting but overwelming I just can't believe that it's finally here is there any encouraging things to say to boost my confidence? it's kinda scary.

2007-11-20 11:25:25 · 16 answers · asked by warren c 1

For our first dance, instead of the traditional slow soppy dance, me and my partner would like a fun one to surprise our guests (as it's something they would never expect from us!)
We were thinking along the lines of:
Crazy Little Thing Called Love
However would like some more suggestions :)
The song must be based around love/togetherness/friendship etc.

2007-11-20 11:01:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-20 10:48:42 · 10 answers · asked by WIbornGrl 1

I have Four bridesmaids 2 are really helpful and willing to do anything the others are sisters in law and stress about alot of things, they are really worried about how they will look and want it their way. If i make a suggestion they dont like they say it would be better if we did it this way cause it looks better on them and even said one of my suggestions would look 'crap'! Im going nuts and this is turning into a miserable experience. What do i do?

2007-11-20 10:40:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

So I am making a christmas mix for my friends christmas eve wedding.. And i need to find lists of songs for christmas music. She likes songs like christing aguilera's santa baby or britney spears christmas music. The more pop type of music. Any help??? And don't worry she will have music that isn't just christmas music i'm just rsponsible for the christmas pop love songs. Thanks guys

2007-11-20 10:24:45 · 9 answers · asked by ? 6

I'm getting married in May and I can't decide on wedding colors.

Here are some ideas:

-sage and gold (too Christmassy??)
-lavender and sage
-lavender and light yellow (butter-like color)

I'm open to all suggestsions!

2007-11-20 10:22:44 · 35 answers · asked by Pikaboo 2

My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years, we went to a court house by ourselves, and have NO pictures from that day. The reason for not having a wedding is cause we didn't need all this attention on us and just wanted to be married ASAP.

We are very happy being a married couple but I'd like to have a wedding someday I don't wanna be married for 20 years and never had a wedding, ya know? Him in his uniform, and me in a simple dress. With photographers.

I think I won't have bridesmaids or I don't know. Maybe just a big party? With wedding presents? Which wouldn't be much cause we already bought everything ourselves.

IDK, how would you do it? How would you change it from a traditional wedding since you're already married? Would you go to a wedding like this?

2007-11-20 10:03:29 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

i love the cold and hate the heat wats best for me

2007-11-20 09:32:43 · 13 answers · asked by Iris 1

How long should you be with someone before you marry them?

2007-11-20 09:20:51 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous

People tell me its normal, but I still feel guilty for having these thoughts. I love my fiance to death, he's the best man for me out there, we're both in our late 20s, have known each other for 4 years, dated for 3....everything is great in the relationship. But I suddenly realized that I will miss the single life....I'll miss exchanging glances with strange guys from across the room, going out dancing with guys, having that "first" kiss or awkward first date, having sex for the very first time with some one. It's not that I had such a highly sexual single life, because I didn't do anything over the top....but I think back to all the fun I had mingling as a single and I feel like its done and gone. How do you get over these feelings?

And no I didnt think about these things while we were just dating, I know some of you will say "how did you make it that far then?"....I guess it just feels like marriage really seals the deal..point of no return.

2007-11-20 09:04:51 · 23 answers · asked by High Fructose Corn Syrup 2

My sister has been involved in this relationship that we, her family do not think is the best thing for her. Well when I got engaged this past August, we set out wedding date for May 2008, when I told my sister that we were getting married, she got engaged too, and set her date for Dec. 2007. Then she went around to all the relatives on both sides and turned them all against our family. The relatives have been very verbally brutal to my parents, and it stems from them leaving the chatholic church 15 years ago, and this is sorta their revenge or something. Why are chatholics like this, these are relatives that my parents are very close to, in cluding my grandma? It's bizarre, well looks like my wedding will be very small.

2007-11-20 08:57:21 · 9 answers · asked by burni.romo 2

Im getting married in Maui in August.. I looked all over the net for a informal strapless wedding dresss that is appropriate for a beach wedding.. Does anyone knwo of any sites excluding davids bridal? i dont want any thing frilly and fru fru.. just a plain strapless A line dress

2007-11-20 08:46:33 · 19 answers · asked by yojanny 1

my parents are divorce. and my dad is still very hostile about the whole situation. He does NOT like my mom's boyfriend or whatever he is...personally i don't really like to be around him myself. For my wedding...what do i do? i don't want my father to get upset or feel as if the bf is trying to take over bc thats the type of person the bf is. HELP?!

2007-11-20 08:37:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

my moms getting married and i dont want her to cause he is so weird he still like kermet the frog and he named his car kermie and hes so weird hes wearing a green tuxido to the wedding!what do i do the wedding is in feb. im desprate please help me

2007-11-20 08:18:13 · 14 answers · asked by sportchic 1

A friend of mine is getting married in 2 weeks. I hosted her bridal shower this past weekend. She had 35 guests in attendance excluding the rest of the bridal party (5 girls plus myself)….Anyway, she contacted me today and asked when I would be sending out the thank you cards to the guests….It has always been my impression that that is up to the bride, not the hostess. I told my friend that I would not be sending out T/Y cards, that it was up to her. She became extremely mad, yelling that she’s not the one that invited everyone (yet she gave me the list of people to be invited) She said that if I’m not going to do my part as MOH, then I’m out…Is it the hostess reasonability to send out T/Y cards? All other showers I’ve ever hosted or been to the “honorary guest” is the one that does the Thank You’s. I fear that she will boot me out of the wedding party at the last minute. What should I do?

2007-11-20 07:56:48 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

does anyone any good wedding songs i was set on more then words by extreme or truly madly deeply by savage garden but my fiancee not keen on them so any ideas no common ones please

2007-11-20 07:37:33 · 24 answers · asked by Ian B 2

Generally second anniversary is COTTON anniversary. So i wanna get some gift with cotton as the theme. But the only thing which comes to your mind when you think of cotton is clothes.And i wanna keep clothes as the last resort.Anything creative with cotton which you ppl can help me out with?

2007-11-20 06:57:06 · 68 answers · asked by Barath 1

planning to get married next summer (!). Neither me or my partner are religious, just wondering about how you can get married without any religious mentionings, or venues. We are thinking of a registry office, but wondering where else is possible?

2007-11-20 06:49:30 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and fiance cant seem to find a good place for our destination wedding. we find one and it ends up costing a fortune! but i want it to be perfect and all this stuff i have to do is really stressing me out! has anyone gone through this and maybe help me out? im also running out of places to research..i would like somewhere in florida..but like i said running out of places to research

2007-11-20 06:27:06 · 8 answers · asked by hot*stuff 2

My fiance want to keep our reception relatively small, 50 maybe 75 people. We're inviting people from both our congregations and family from out of town to hear the wedding talk and the reciting of our vows. But we need to cut down on the money spent so we're only inviting close family and very close friends to the reception. How can i help people not to get mad or feel left out? I know i can't please everyone but i can try to explain somehow.

2007-11-20 06:24:22 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

My fiance and I are planning on going to Jamaica with our family and friends to get married. But, he wants to get married before we go at a JOP to make things easier with my insurance, etc. (you don't get your marriage license from Jamaica for 12-14 weeks).
I talked to my travel agent and she said it's not an option for the Jamaican officials to just not file the marriage certificate once the wedding is finished.
So, is it legal to marry the same person twice and file both licenses for both marriages?

2007-11-20 06:20:59 · 18 answers · asked by PuppyLuv1978 3

we'll get marry after 2-3yrs, after our marrige i want healthy kids So i jst wanna knw tht m i doing ok ?
or
shud i go with condom?
or
shud i stop doing sex?
because i dnt wnt any type of complications after our marriage.. as i love my gf so much and i want a good future....please help me seriously...thnk u

2007-11-20 05:59:00 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want to do one of these for my guest to sign. I will also have a guest book in case not everyone wants to sign the platter. Wow can you imagine handing this platter down generation to generation.
What are you experiences about have a signature platter?

2007-11-20 04:29:06 · 7 answers · asked by mudpie 2

2007-11-20 04:24:18 · 3 answers · asked by Scotty Doesnt Know 7

Just a fun Top 10 for all you Weddings section fans..

10. No you cant fire out your bridesmaids just because they didnt throw you a shower and are not going crazy over your wedding.
9. Whatever it takes to get a beautiful ring without going into debt.
8. Thats tacky.
7. If you cant afford alcohol, then dont serve any.
6. I love your dress!!!
5. You wear it under your engagement ring, closest to your heart.
4. No you cant ask for money instead of gifts.. only silently hope.
3. It doesnt have to be matchy-matchy.
2. No its never appropriate to ask guests to open their wallets while attending your party.

What do you think 1. should be?

2007-11-20 04:14:06 · 19 answers · asked by fizzy stuff 7

My friend's daughter is getting married. I do not really know her daughter or her fiance. I have known this friend for several years but she gets on my nerves somewhat and goes to a church that I don't attend anymore. This is awkward. What should I do without causing problems? Plus this wedding the day before new years eve.

2007-11-20 02:57:13 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

how do i make it shine and people notice without shoving my hand in their face

2007-11-20 02:23:22 · 51 answers · asked by Anonymous